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Kenny,

As someone who have been through the same thing as you are now, My heart goes to your father,you and your family. My prayers goes to all of you.

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*wallops kenny*

As i read your entry, the song Wind Beneath My Wings was playing in my own blog, and i imagined a fraction of what you felt, and tht mere fraction wetted my eyes. *ok i admit tht i'm a cry baby*

take care, friend. God bless.

"It must have been cold there in my shadow,
to never have sunlight on your face.
You were content to let me shine, that's your way.
You always walked a step behind.

So I was the one with all the glory,
while you were the one with all the strength.
A beautiful face without a name for so long.
A beautiful smile to hide the pain.

Did you ever know that you're my hero,
and everything I would like to be?
I can fly higher than an eagle,
for you are the wind beneath my wings."

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My heart goes out to your father, you and the rest of your family. With so much love and support, your father will have more than enough courage to deal with it. You're a good son. :)

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that's a beautiful story. i'm rendered speechless at times like these, where friends are greatly distressed by things that are outside their control. i hope for you to take care and for your father's health to get better.

hugs.

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your entry made me teared. stay strong for your mom and your brothers. there's always a chance in getting well as your dad is a fighter. he's been through so much to reach up there. i know he'll never give up. hang in there boy!

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Sham - Thank you. Its a difficult time for both of us. A little support from someone in the same boat is priceless. I wish all the best for you and your family too.

Kimmik - Thank you for empathizing. Laughter gives me strength to go through this. You give me that. :)

Jayelle - Sometimes I felt like I'm the one who needs help to stand up and face the facts. One of the most difficult thing to do in this situation is to face reality, grab life by the balls, deal with it and just hope for a miracle.

IngHui - I will take care. Thanks for your wishes. I do hope that my father's health will be under control if not get better. :)

Chrissie - Its one of the things I fear. Sometimes he'd say things like he's prepared to let it all go and give it all up. We want to live a life like everything is ok and everything is normal and that our long-term future plans includes him in it. Its just very difficult to do, as if we're lying to ourselves. I'm still keeping my hopes up. Thank you.

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stay strong, to you and your family

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kenny.. stay strong. 4 both ur family, n 4 urself. i feel helpless coz sayin anyting wud b rather hypocritical since i'm not in ur situation, but i kno tht whn my own dad got hurt it was painfully upsettin. if u need sum1 2 tok 2.. thr's owez msn ok?

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I'm really sorry about your father. I, myself, can't ever imagine losing any of my parents to cancer. I can only hope that you can pull through this, and become a stronger person!

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Considering that you wrote this on Jan 23, how's everything now? I sincerely prayed that it's getting better. Please let it be! fingers-crossed.. i've to let out a big 'sigh' when reading what you wrote. it is solemn, it is sad. i can feel it.

Sometimes it's hard for one to pen down his innermost feelings, particularly sth as such but i think you did a great job. seriously.. i hope that you would be granted the courage to face all these. Do cheer up n take k plz :).. although these words might be too late now. But, ya..

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Thanks for dropping a comment on this seemingly 'forgotten entry'. Since I last wrote about my father things have been a little better. Diet improved slightly and weight has gone up.

There are a lot to my father that I didn't choose to write here as I do think some things are better left private. But thanks for asking. :) I really appreciate it.

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This is a touch one..i'm so sorry about ur father.Tomolo will be better... be positive and stay strong ...God bless ur family

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you know, behind that comical side of you, you're a man who is in touch with your emotional needs, and for that, i respect you, kenny.

i bet your dad is damn proud of you (as i would be too, if i had a son like you) :) keep him smilin' and tickle his funny bone.

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Looking back at the time when you and your family were facing with this situation, your maturity at handling this is highly commendable. I wish your family well and keep your dad's fighting spirit burning! :)

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I sorry about your father but my prayers goes to all of you.

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i tried to key in my email add and password but it stil wont let me read this page?

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I don't know how to access this page, i'm also a advanced stage cancer patient who is still receiving chemo, give all the love and support you have to your dad, it will be highly appreciated and needed.
Stay strong Kenny!

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my prayers goes to your father kenny, i cant access the page though, and it kept on saying i entered wrong password. what password shud i enter anyway?

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i would like to read this post but when i entered my email n password it say invalid...may i know how i can read this post ?

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so sorry to hear that.......

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sorry may i get password?i m new here

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hey, I'm dealing with some death and grief issues here recently... any kind souls mind telling me how can i access this post?

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sorry to hear that...T_T


.....can i get the access plz?

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gee.. so sorry bout ur dad..

a few months ago i lost my opa to cancer too..

wish to read this post if u dont mind..

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lost mine when i was form 1, and now i can't reason why i went to school that day.

"invalid password" it says... what password am i suppose to enter anyway?

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OH MY GOD YOUR FATHER IS NOT HAVING CANCER U ARE SUCH ABIG LIEYER ANY WAY U STINK

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HI! AFter reading your blog make me feel that fathers are good in every ways, even though not all of them are good...Kenny! I am glad that you had a great father because no matter what, your daddy loves you very much...but I am not so sure about mine..my only sweet memory with him is only up to 5 years old of my life..the rest are all..i don't know how to say :D however losing him in my life does make a big difference...just the diference between you and me with our daddy is that you grow up with his love and I don't..but mostly physically abuse--he likes to hit people:) hmm what else i want to say... dont know la...what do you have to say :D by the way my blog is still empty so dont read :D

pai seh pai seh :D dont tulan ya!

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wats the need for the password?

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Hi Kenny. I do understand how you felt about your father, as I have experienced the same situation as you did.
My father was diagnosed to have lung cancer, though he doesn't have any contributing factor that predisposed him to any source of cancer, medically speaking...
I watch him suffered for two years, from being hopeful, alternating between modern western medicine with traditional Chinese medicine. When he consulted a medium, that;s when I knew he had lost hope.
I remember vividly the breathing machine that hissed from the oxygen machine that he was hooked on for the last 28 days of his life. I remember the last 48 hours before his demise where I promised him I would personally assist him with his physiotherapy to enable him to stand on his own.
I witnessed the tranformation from a muscular man to a withering skin and bones.
I watched him blew his last breathe. I watched how he suffocated during the last few minutes of his life.
I was the one who injected the dose of morphine to ease his passings.
I remember writing a poem the minute he blew his last breathe that was printed in his orbituary.
Trust me.... I understand how you feel....

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