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Monday, 09 January 2006

The Most Difficult Words To Say


"When you go back to Perth, do you think we should just... ?"

She's gone.

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hey... I hope it's not what I think it is.... *hugs*

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Hugs

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take care dude :)

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luv all ur entries!!
all the best!

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I know how you feel :( :(

I won't be seeing my bf till year end or so too :( :(

Sucks..

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get married?

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Cheer up mate...

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be tough man

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awww... dont worry kenny. stay strong yeah?

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her hand is beautiful

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you can always wait if you truly love her. I'm sure she'll be touched by your sincerity

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you can always wait if you truly love her. I'm sure she'll be touched by your sincerity

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:(
sad
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be strong kenny perth is a 5 hour flight away .... and they'll be holidays where u can visit ... i know its not exactly wht u'd like to read but be strong and let GOD guide you thru this ........

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prunella: what sincerity?. it's all about physical interaction these days. without it, a relationship bears no meaning.

yoyo: her hand is not pretty.

kenny: "When you go back to Perth, do you think we should just... ?" (be friends)

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I hope it's not what I'm thinking....

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get married? O_o

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Omg? Is it as bad as I think it is....? ):

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take care, you.

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What happened..? Whatever it is we will be here to offer support and courage. Stand strong, man.

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All the best in making it through this

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Try not to think so much of the bad things.

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Hey Kenny, my bf is in Perth too,and I am in the UK.Its so tough because there is so much that we both miss out of each other's lives now, no matter how much we try to communicate,but we both understand that it is just a matter of time until we will be together.We are just working hard towards that time.I guess it just depends on what you want, at the end of the day.If you think there's really something worth waiting for in the future, something to work towards,and you both feel that way,then stay strong.It will pay off.It feels lonely sometimes and it gets so hard sometimes for me,I dont know whether thats how you feel as well,but I know its worth it,so I will wait.God bless and I hope everything works out for you.

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u have jumped higher hurdles before...stay focused

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Alamak. Why does this entry seem like it's filled with negativity : (

Heads up ya mate. : ) I dunno the whole story la obviously, so I'm not very qualified to give advice, but I will give you my support. : D Good lark.

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take care kenny *hugs*

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you and your perth entries. whatever

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u have my support no matter what happen...
cheer up ok...
*hugs*

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Dunch noe what happened to her. However sometimes it's a relieved to know that she's gone. Now, you can move on with your life, knowing that she's not waiting for you anymore.

This is my first msg to ya! take care mate.

Perth is gay!!!

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Aiyo, hold hand surely propose liao bah. Where got people hold hand and say break up. Get slap later..

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Take care kenny.
is it as bad?..

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Wow, the pic mean a lot of stuffz. Anyway, cheerup dude?! Me n my gf oso kind like "Long relationship" Veli hard to contact her! :P

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*hugs* you'll be alright kenny

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so sad, too bad for u!!! =P

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Be strong Kenny, we know you will be.

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ohhh. sorry, Kenny.

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can u please continue the wording?

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D:

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long distance relationship...
needs lots of trust and patience...
good luck to u...
=)

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whatever it is, take care. it is all for the best. :) *hugs*

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D:

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hey! dont give up!

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Bapakk ar... 1 quote and 2 words post... but emo like hell !!

watever it meant.. cheer up wei.

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Congrats Kenny! For whatever reason it may be, be it breakup or your wedding. From the looks of the sentence, you must've said it to her - if it was a breakup, you had your reasons and it's great you did what you had to do. - if it was a proposal, when are you going to show us Mrs. Kenny Sia? We've seen all your friends but her?

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HmMm.... Are you thinkin what i'm thinkin???
By the way, that picture is from Tom's aite???

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u're our hero, and heroes don't cry. kch kolomee behind u also

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I wonder how awkward it would be.

"Nicole, give me your hand"
Kenny holds Nicole's hands, whips out his camera and takes the picture.
"Now where was I? Oh yes, before you leave..."

..no offense intended, dude

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Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great. -de bussy-rabutin

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yea i was wondering bout the awkward situation too,oink.
anyways kenny, if it's sth bad, dont worry..all ur blogders' rite behind u! =D cheer up dude.

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Separating seems the hardest thing to do. But then,it may not be separation. lolz.

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Note: Kenny, i wrote your post in CCaleb before this one...

...and i was wondering, why would you say this:

I didn’t managed to attend the wedding in JB (I had some relationship issues to deal with at the time). As punishment, Cowboy sentenced me to take care of his blog while he’s away.

...when you're supposed to be having fun in some lagoon.

I guess life bites huh, but i think you've made the best decision for both you and Nicole. stay strong kenny, and Altism was right, you've tackled higher hurdles before. Treat this as a stepping-stone in your life man, cheer up ok!

Your readers are behind you!

ps: my virgin comment here leh.

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Its better to let go then regret. Was in a 8 year relationship(7years LDR) since 16, no end product. I think its best for the both of you. take care.

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Its better to let go then regret. Was in a 8 year relationship(7years LDR) since 16, no end product. I think its best for the both of you. take care.

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there will always be a right time, the right place and the right decisions to happen. Chin up, kenny. And as difficult as things may be at the moment, remember that there is always hope.:-)

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there will always be a right time, the right place for the right decisions to happen. Chin up, kenny. And as difficult as things may be at the moment, remember that there is always hope.:-)

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This entry is abit ambigious... but I take it it's a bad thing (seeing as she's gone)

Cheer up dude, take things as life throws at you and with your wit, I'm sure the right opportunity for you will come for you; whatever your entry really means.

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hey kenny, im one of your daily readers but have never left any comments until I saw this picture you posted up. i know its hard what you're going through because i burst at the thought of losing my other half. guess theres no best advice for breakups so ill just pray for you. take care.

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Ooohhh. O_O
I'm so so sorry.....but be strong. Love is a mysterious thing...who knows what will happen next? We readers who don't know you in person can hardly help you out much. But we're here as your silent support!

*hugs*

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I'm in an LDR too and i know how it feels. Hardest relationship to maintain in the world (UK vs M'sia for 1.5 years and climbing) but also the most romantic, special and memorable in my opinion!! I do hope you were just pulling our legs in that post. If not well, i was told,

" In life 10 % is what happens to you and 90% is what you do about it"

you have loads of attitude Ken, keep it up!!!

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ayo, this relationship like 2 ostriches with head in the ground..sooner or later have to decide already :I

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U are free! U can survive! Without Nicole! On ur own! Wif ur coconuts!

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stay cool man~ hav some beer~

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true love never runs smooth..

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"When you go back to Perth, do you think we should just... ?"

... go our separate ways?

Gosh, I hope my guess is wrong Kenny. Looking at the title of your entry, I really don't know of any words more difficult to say than breaking up when both persons are still in love with each other... :(

I am about to go into a long distance relationship soon myself... with my bf going to Perth as well :(

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My dear Ashley, dun be so -ve, as i guess, after the title: "When you go back to Perth, do you think we should just..." kenny put a pic of holding hands ( get married)... and this make sense tht to the most difficult words to say... rather than "she's gone"...

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Hmmm...keeping us in suspense eh? Could swing either way, i.e. good news or the other. All the best dude.

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Sorry to hear...

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cheer up kenny - we're all behind ya!

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Huggies.

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*hugs*
picture really paint a thousand words
it makes me wanna cry
*sobs*

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Look Kenny, you can't make her stay by tryin' to break her arm, alright? :-)

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if this is fate, we just have to accept it. ppl say if u really love someone....u should let him / her go....it's just like a butterfly...the more u chase after it, the more it'll elude and fly away.....but if it ever flies back to u...u know it's urs to keep forever....tat's wat i've learned from the woman i LOVE so much, but had fly away from me... :(
good luck Kenny

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I'd hug you, but that would be gay. So I'll just say this in the most hetero way possible: May the Coconuts be with you.

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Even you both were in the grey area in the past, the mere fact that she still follows you to Kuching this time round means alot actually. I believe you both still loves each other very much. And I don't think this is suppose to be a sad post. Waiting for some joyous updates from you.

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Better to have loved than not :)

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I know how it feels. Trust me. Take care my friend, and may you shine in all your adversities.

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fang xing la! mei shi de. be tough dogg, its life. i duno what ur entry means, but... i fink, its valy [i]"chim"[/i].

if its becoz of long relationship, lol... then u'l havta bear wif it. my fren's gf were in russia for more than a yr, but they stil stay tough! so man, ni nen de! jia you!

but i feel its sth more... not that simple. ni zai wan pa si ma?

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And judging by the way how you held her hands (if those hands are really yours and nicole), the position seems like you are putting a ring on her finger?

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Kenny, long distance relationship takes a lot of patience, and I am in a LDR myself, he is in Auckland and I am in Sydney. Not that far I know but we still can't see each other often. I miss out a lot on his daily activities, especially his basketball matches. Sighs, sometimes I want to give up...but Kenny, be strong!

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Sorry to hear about this Kenny. =(

I only met you once, but I could tell that Nicole meant so much to you. Take care dude.

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well, look above. lots of people supporting u and giving u hugs and all. cheer up. if she's meant to be yours, she's yours! *another huggiez from me*

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The most difficult words to say in my vocabulary are 'goodbye' and 'sorry'. Since Kenny has done nothing wrong and Nicole has been to Kuching to visit him before and he's never posted anything similar to this, Kenny's probably asking for a break up.

Kenny, I'm so sorry for you man... Must be the hardest thing to do..

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All the Best my friend ;) From all of us here in Canada!

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Kenny...*hugs*...

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"... call it quits?"

You are still young and with your semi-fame in this blog you have hundreds of sweet chicks just waiting to suck your coconuts. Man, I can only imagine how your mind must be torn between the love of nicole and the obvious opportunities that you have.

Being a dirty bastard myself, I have no doubt what I would do. I've been in a long distance relationship myself and I have seen many such relationships come and go. They all have one thing in common, they fail... I have a very good friend that just "wasted" 3 years in a long distance relationship that ended one month ago (china-norway).

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""When you go back to Perth, do you think we should just... ?"

"Have wild sex?"

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"...make lil Nicoles and Kenny Jrs"

Fuck, yeah?

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oi why so much suspense lah????????

>. watever it is..im still here kenny =D
*i know tat sounded lame but i wanna cheer u up!*

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Kenny,
Happiness isn't a destination, it's a journey. Take care and be well.

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aww, Kenny.

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I've been reading your blog for like, forever. But this is my very first time commenting because I don't think I can live with myself if I just stood by and watched.

Stay strong buddy, we all love you.

:)

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I saw Kolo mee in Singapore Chinatown recently.
Come try it if U have time heh.

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*hugs*

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Take care, Kenny.

Our situations are different and all, lah, but LDR's can sometimes work. He and I were apart for three years. He was in the US and I was in Sg. He didn't want to leave the US, I didn't want to leave Sg.

NWe have now been married for almost nine years.

Good luck.

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This Kenny always keep people in suspense.

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kenny is on a hiatus to re-discover himself. good luck

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wad happen?????

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oh no D: stay strong okay kenny? I hope it isn't what I'm thinking about now. Things could have been worse, if it is. And you've been through so much already so don't give up D: stand tall!

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maybe it's good..maybe it's bad..
either way, she'll always be in your heart right? if you're getting married, congrats. if otherwise...cherish the moments you've spent with her.

good luck.

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Never easy maintaining long distance relationships. Take care!

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Let us all not jump to conclusions, people.

Kenny, please put us out of this misery of anticipation!!

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I think that instead of being in an unstable relationship, having 2 people confused & in misery, things could be done. Either you go over to Perth & join her, or she comes over to Kuching & join you. If both are non-plausible solutions, I guess it'll have to hurt.

Sometimes, love just ain't enough, isn't it? :(

I'm sorry, Kenny.

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(=_=")

i dunno what happen but why everyone so serious one??? this is just another drama...

anyway...nice movie here. i'm waiting for the next episode *eating popcorn in advance*

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Yea...good luck...All the best and take care.

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I have no idea what the rest of the sentence is, but I hope that you're doing good no matter what it is. Take care.

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"shes gone"?

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"When you go back to Perth, do you think we should just... ?"

"pack up and move to Singapore"

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As a kah-cheh all i can say is a good relationship - one which is right for you - should not be too difficult to keep afloat. Of course, any relationship will be tested with tribulation, so I'm not saying it should be EASY.
My point is, your partnership should not cause you more strife than simple happiness, or peace of mind. Let this be your gauge.
Sometimes our instincts tell us something is not right, but we soldier on, regardless. And sometimes, we hold on to something for the wrong reasons. You'll figure it out. Luck.

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if you love her, why do you break up with her ?

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testing

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awww, i hope you're okay!?!? did you guys break up?

btw - love your posts!

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Hey Kenny!!
Stay strong k??whatever it is.. stay strong!! We'll always be here for you.. *HUGS*

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".. phone sex?"

Seriously, it splits my heart just to see you two tormenting one another. Sometimes you can only love as much as the other person allows and the distance permits. And the distance hasn’t helped.

Guys, it's not the end of the world. Brighten up and the sun will come out on the west side tomorrow just as today and the day before. Or was it the east side? In any case it will be a different day and perhaps a new and better beginning.

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Kenny MIA! :P

Hmm... if it's good news, Kenny, you are doing this on purpose to torment your readers eh? :P

But *touchwood*, if it's bad... we understand... *hugs*

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You have my prayers. I hope you get through this ok......

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it just a picture of hand.....no big deal.

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Old dun go, new won't come

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i'm sure u can get through with this Kenny :) don't be sad too long, dude!

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Kenny, distance is not a problem. There's something called a webcam, something called a microphone, something called broadband, something called a computer. Don't worry. My cousin and her bf got married after 6 years of long distance relationship. So, it's not really a big matter. Good luck, dude.

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Kenny, distance is not a problem. There's something called a webcam, something called a microphone, something called broadband, something called a computer. Don't worry. My cousin and her bf got married after 6 years of long distance relationship. So, it's not really a big matter. Good luck, dude.

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what happened exactly? take care dude...

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what happened exactly? take care dude...

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i just had a no-name fight with my fren's girlfren named nicole.now i hate everyone name girl-nicole(for sometime,i hope)..ermm... since nicole can be a guy's name too.. ^_^

relax Kenny.chinese new year is approaching.its easier to kicked 'something' out when u r looking forward to something [else] new... new year is a time to rejuvenate ourselves.so,make the best out of it.
take care!

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eh dont laaa...macam wanna break up onlyyyy??? apart only ma........!! Argh. You make me wanna type like shit. Sigh.

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you're such a loyal guy.

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Kenny my Kenny dear..

My heart wanted to say 'get married' but my logic and reality thinks it might be 'a break up?'

Hope I am wrong tho..whatever the case may be, they say, if it's meant to be, it will happen.
Muacks to ya!

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Ooi! What happened la?

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dude, from the pic it seems the lady is not even grabbing on to ur hand. and u seems to be the one holding on.

thats just not a very good sign my fried.

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From 128 comments, only one, vidar lund managed to complete the sentence right.

Maybe I used to be norwegian and vidar lund managed to read my mind through some weird norwegian psychotelepathic shit.

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hey man... be cool

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that's sad... what did she tell you?

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I just read the RIGHT vidar lund's sentence ending.

x_x

I'm just SO SORRY. It must hurt so much...but...be strong.
There surely is some beautiful COCONUT LADY out there for you. ^_^

Not that she is supposed to have coconuts, that would be damn scary. Heh.

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hum dum bum,

give up, don't give up

whats the diff. , still gotta eat, sleep, shit, breathe gotto remember to breathe, dude.

hey, at least you didn't get a 'Dear, John' right?.

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Time will heal your wound. Stay strong!

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Is this a new meme for the Pixart competition?

Anyway Kenny, "Sai Weng Shi Ma, Yen Zhi Fei Fu?" No doubt Nicole is a good girl and you, a good guy. But not every story will have a happy ending. Through these, we rediscover ourselves and make us better and stronger.

Well, i believe you don't need any consolation from us. Let us all give Kenny some time alone. Am pretty sure we will see him bounce back very soon.

P.S - Wanna give you a hug but decided to refrain from doing so. Can't imagine myself hugging another man anyway. Shall reserve the hug for Desperate Addict instead! :D

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sighs. you guys are going thru it now. i may go thru it in the future. the future seems bleak.

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maybe we could all read ur mind but dint want to say it out loud.

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wow the words from vidar lund is just so sharp! "You are still young and with your semi-fame in this blog you have hundreds of sweet chicks just waiting to suck your coconuts." :Q envy of u kenny.

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Congratulations for the forthcoming wedding ^^/
So she popped the question? or did you?

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i should stop reading peoples' hands.

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Kenny: I doubt the others were oblivious to the obvious. But considering that this blog has served as a place of escapist entertainment for them, they just wanted to return the favour by avoiding a potentially sad subject.

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Avoiding TO MENTION potentially sad subjects.

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Hey I don't think that's my hand. You cheating on me again!

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Dont worry kenny. she replied u!

"Hey I don't think that's my hand. You cheating on me again!

Posted by: Nicole at January 14, 2006 12:13 AM"


Steady liao. get married!

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im sorry for you, kenny.
stay strong.

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hmm... real or fake? few words with a picture, create lots of feedbacks..

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Go after her, Kenny.

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heh?

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Some ppl here who said they are going to marry are just plain STUPID! didn't you guys read his previous entry? From who I read.. I think they're breaking up..

stay strong Kenny, i think this is the best way for both of you, you guys can't be lover but you still can remains friends right? :)

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Kenny,
Happiness isn't a destination, it's a journey. Take care and be well..

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