Monday, 04 May 2015

Ten Years

Dear Papa,

It has been ten years since you're gone.



Never imagined I would be missing you everyday for ten years, but I guess I did. :) Ten years have passed, but the feeling of not having you around anymore is just as raw as it was ten years ago.

A lot has happened. A lot of milestones achieved in these ten years. I'm a little disappointed that you were not around to witness it, nor to taste the fruits of your labour. But that's the cards we were dealt with, right? So we live with it.



The supermarket business that you started more than twenty years ago has been making a lot of progress recently. Just last month, we had a ribbon-cutting ceremony for our first outlet outside of Sarawak. Mom told me that it has always been a dream of yours to expand into Sabah, and now that dream has come true. Ten years after you're gone.

Who would have thought, a tiny little home-grown business you started from absolute scratch with your barehands is now big enough to straddle two Malaysian states. Not bad for a local brand name. Not bad for a local brand name that some think is not "good enough" to compete with the major players from West Malaysia. Now we are starting to stand toe-to-toe against them.

I think kor kor deserved a lot of credit, for re-branding and refreshing a forty-year-old brand name and turning that uncool image around. I think you'll be so proud of his business acumen. It's more modernized and stylish now... although it still bears the ol' ching-chong name you gave. ;)



Compared to kor kor, the business I started may not be as large - but for a six-year-old business that was started from scratch I think not too bad also lah. Last September, I also had my little milestone when I expanded outside of Kuching. After a lot of hard work, I finally opened a small gym in the tiny town of Segamat, Johor. It's not something I had initially planned, but I got a really dedicated partner and I also wanted to see how good a mentor I can be. Perhaps it's because I have grown up, but I find that the process of helping people achieve their dreams more spiritually and emotionally fulfilling compared to just doing it for myself.

The only thing better than starting your own business, is helping other people start their own business, see them make money and grow. :)

Papa, all these are related to work. The biggest thing you missed in these ten years is my wedding.

On the 9th September 2014, Ming and I completed the third of our three wedding ceremonies. I prayed to you the day before. Even went as far as to wear the gold watch you left behind for the entire day of my wedding.

Of course, Ming and I's biggest regret is not to be able to serve you tea.

But we are doing good.

So now, after more than twenty years living underneath the roof you built, I have finally moved out to my own little place. Your little boy is finally becoming a man.

I'm glad I have finally found the person that I wanted to share the rest of my life with. Mom adores her... sometimes more than me. ;) And I feel just as accepted by her family. I think you would have really like her too.



I guess the next step now, is to start my own family, huh? If it happens, the only thing I hope is that I can be as good a father as you were to me.

The past ten years had not been easy at all. I had to deal with a lot of challenges thrown in my way. From dealing with the pain of your passing in 2006, finding my own feet in the business world in 2009, rising in the face of competition in 2013, to finally finding balance and achieving stability in 2015.

Too many obstacles I faced in this journey to adulthood. At the same time, I sense that the worst of the worsts is over.

Now I'm ready for a new chapter in my life.

From a young adult to a man. From being single to a husband. From a business start-up to a mentor.



With you watching from above, I think I'm gonna be able to get through this funny thing called 'Life'. :)

In the meantime, please take care. I know I've been owing you ten years of coffee, and counting.


Till we meet again,

Your youngest son.




Tuesday, 21 April 2015

The Best of Europe

With the crashing ringgit and the GST, I thought Malaysians may be more cautious with their spending.

I thought wrong.

This was the scene at the most recent MATTA Fair at PWTC.

It took me one good hour to make find a parking spot 1km away from the venue, and another good hour just to make my way through the queues into the 5 huge exhibition halls playing host to the MATTA Fair.

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If Malaysians wanna travel, they will spend - and not even the weak ringgit is gonna stop them!

Despite the rising popularity of lesser-known "hipster" destinations, travelling to Europe remains one of many people's biggest wishes.

At the MATTA Fair, I sat down with one of travel giant Trafalgar's Travel Director and Europe destination expert Brendon Bush for a brief chat.

[Disclaimer: I was asked to do the interview with an experienced tour guide at the MATTA Fair. Not paid to do this.]

The world is huge and there are many places to travel to. Why is Europe still such a great travel destination, especially for Malaysians?

A: For me it's the diversity. There are very few places in the world that have such rich diversity of one area. You can go to America, but it's all "America". You can go to Australia, but it's all "Australia".

Their history and the culture don't change.

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If you are in Europe, you could drive for 5 days and go through 5 different countries. And each of those country has a different language, different people, different food, different tradition, different custom, different architecture, different landscape!

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Everything is so varied in Europe. And that is the beauty that keeps people coming back.

I've been living and working in Europe now for 18 years, and I'm feeling I'm only starting to scratch the surface of having seen Europe!

 

Eastern Europe in particularly has opened up to tourism. Which of these new former-USSR countries have surprised you the most?

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A: Currently, I really like Poland, Croatia and the former Yugoslavia. Bosnia Herzegovina, Slovenia and Croatia -  that area is really a bit of a hot spot now. It's the new "place to be".

Western Europe is still great if you haven't been to Europe before, but a lot of people are always looking for that non-trodden track.

 

Europe is still somewhat elusive for most Malaysians. For first-time visitors to Europe, what would you say is the best way to get started?

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A: I guess it really comes down to personal preference, Kenny! As a travel director, I would get down to the big city hot spots, and do a multi-country destination to start with so they could get an overview.

Because of the diversity that Europe has, if you go to one place, you might not like that one country.

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But if you do one of our Discovery holidays which does many different countries to start with, you get a taste of all those different countries. You might like one country, you might not like the next. But you'll know that.

So when you come back to Europe, you'll do one of our Country Explorer - one country instead and delve into the history and customs a little bit more.

 

What I want to do now is a "Best of..." list. So, off the top of your head, what would be the best place to go to in Europe for...

 

Best Place for Shopping

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A: If people want to go Rome or Milan or Florence or Venice for shopping, they all got the same famous brand names - Gucci, Prada, Versace, etc.

If you want to go to Paris, the Champs-Élysées or Galleries Lafayette. If you want to go to London, Oxford Street.

 

Best Place for Food

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A: I lived in Italy for five years, Kenny, so I'll be biased towards Italy for food! It's hard to go past spaghetti alle vongole (spaghetti with clams) or the seafood of the Mediterranean.  A killer tiramisu is my favourite dessert by far.

I do like the sauces of France - Duck a L'Orange (roasted duck with orange sauce), but I'll stick with Italy.

 

Best Place for Coffee

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A: I don't drink coffee, but the only place that I do drink it is Italy. Because I love espresso. A very short, heavy, thick espresso would normally have the same effect as a defibrillator and keep you awake for ten years!

Regardless of which city and what time of the day, if I can get an Italian coffee, I'd drink it. Across the border and outside of Italy, I stop drinking coffee!

 

Best Place for Art

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A: The Louvre. Greatest collection in the world on display there.

Q: Do people always marvel at how small the Monalisa is?

A: Always. "And why is it behind a pane of glass!?"

 

Best Church

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There is a beautiful little church in Innsbruck, Austria called the Cathedral of St James. It's an 18th century baroque church, just off the beaten track a little bit. From the outside, it looks quite austere, but inside is greatest example of baroque architecture you'll ever see in your life. There's such rich decoration that as soon as you walk in, your jaw hits the ground.

I'd love to take my guests there for a hidden treasure.

 

Best Train Journey

The Glacier Express. It's in Switzerland, and it goes from St Moritz to Zermatt. It's a six hour train journey, glass-roofed train, commentary in six different languages, and the most rugged and beautiful landscape in the world. If anyone were to research it, you would find it in the top 5 train journeys in the world.

We do that on our 'Contrasts of Switzerland' holiday.

 

Best Drinking Hole

Temple Bar in Ireland!

 

Best Food Market

Mercado de La Boqueria in Barcelona, Spain.

 

Best Live Sports

Watching football in London. All of Asia loves watching football.

 

Best Castle

Ashford Castle. It's in Ireland. We stay there on our Iconic Ireland and Ashford Castle holiday, as part of our Authentic Accommodation.

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It's a 13th century castle, and we stay inside there. It's beautiful.

But the most famous castle that we cannot stay inside is of course the Neuschwanstein Castle in Germany.

 

Best Place for History Buffs

For ancient history, Greece or Italy.

For more recent modern history, you go to the former Soviet Bloc, or the concentration camps in Germany or Poland.

 

Best Place for Adventure Sports

Switzerland, and anywhere in the Alpine region. You can go on your white-water rafting, canyoning, bungee-jumping, sky-diving and all these different things in the mountainous region. Mountains and adrenaline always go together.

 

Best Place for Sunset

Santorini, in the Greek Islands.

Cinque Terre in Italy is nice too, but I truly think the Greek Islands is a little bit more special.

 

Most Over-rated Place

Spanish Steps in Rome. It's a staircase that's covered by people and you can't even see. I stand by my decision!

 

Most Under-Appreciated Places

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Two of the most under-appreciated buildings are The Baptistery and the Cathedral of Pisa.

People don't even look at them. All they want to do is see the Leaning Tower. You've got these beautiful masterpieces that are older than the Leaning Tower, made of just as intricate a stonework and as richly decorated. But because they are not leaning, forget about it! How can you do this? Really?

So everytime we go to Pisa, I try to point out the Baptistery and the Cathedral so people can appreciate it more.

The most under-appreciated place is Austria.

People don't know a lot about the country. They think it's all classical music and composers, they don't realize the plains where Vienna is, then you got this mountainous region that's stuck in between Italy and Germany. This is where Innsbruck is, where Salzburg is.

You got probably the greatest baroque style buildings and architecture in all of Europe. You got rolling green hills, countryside, mountainous peaks - it's beautiful!

 

Best Place to Pop The Question

It's cliche, but I always found Venice to be very romantic during night time when there are no tourists around.

It doesn't necessarily have to be in a city. There are some small cute villages like the Cinque Terre, Italy.

You can get away from the crowds, go to some lesser-known places and stay in a tiny hotel on the waterfront.

You can be sitting on the beach by the beautiful moonlight when you propose. There are beautiful walks that you can do as well, then hold hands, sit down for a picnic as you slowly build up your nervousness to finally pop the question!

Monday, 23 March 2015

Goodbye LKY

Unlike the current generation of entrepreneurs who can count Robert Kiyosaki, Donald Trump and Steve Jobs as inspirational figures, my late father have few well-known figures he that looked up to.

One such exception, is Lee Kuan Yew.

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When I was 7, I saw on my father's desk a biography of Lee Kuan Yew.

"Who is that, papa?"

"He is someone incredibly extra-ordinary. Thirty years ago, Singapore and Kuching were the same but he developed Singapore so much. No one could ever have imagined. Read, and you will soon know, son."

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