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25 October 2007

Short Talk:

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Things We Like About Women

If any girl reading my previous entry sound like a grumpy divorced old man on a women-bashing frenzy, my apologies.

The truth is, as much as I sometimes feel that women are the cause to all of our woes and problems, there are little magical moments when we appreciate you and think that you're most beautiful angels sent from above. You may not even realise it, but some things you do subconciously make us feel all tingly inside and swoon all over you.



1. When You're Putting On Make Up

There's something incredibly mysterious about watching a girl put on make-up.

Maybe it's the level of concentration shining through your face when you're apply the lipstick. Maybe it's how cute you look when you smile at yourself coyly in the mirror, obviously admiring the work you've done.

Or maybe we're secretly thinking that all that effort you're going through, is for us.



2. When You Play With Babies

Almost every guy I know are fascinated watching how their girlfriends behave around babies. This could usually mean one of two things.

Either we are secretly attracted to your maternal instincts because we're thinking this could be how you play with our kids in the future.

Or more likely, we are fantasising putting ourselves in the position of the baby as you hold it close to your lovely bosoms.



3. When We Caught a Whiff Of Your Perfume

Next time you go out wearing your favourite fragrance (such as that extremely popular and excellent fragrance brand starting with "Hu" and ending in "Go"), keep an eye out for the dozens of guys who had turned their head to look back at you with more than a passing interest.

As any guy who have accidentally caught the scent of a woman walking past would know, next to physical intimacy, there's nothing more mindblowingly sexy than having that sweet feminine aura linger in the air for a while longer.



4. When You Show Your Sexy Back

Everytime a girl bends over and her panties peek out accidentally, our eyes will normally dip briefly to secretly check out the type, material, colour, etc of her undies.

I'm not proud of it, but hey most guys do it. We love it when you tease us with your feminine charms discreetly that way, even if it's unintentional.

It's not perving, it's just the way things are. And unfortunately you'll have to accept it, otherwise you might have to lobby to bring high-waisted grandma undies back into fashion. ;)




5. When You're Fast Asleep

Ask any guy what their favourite moments with their girlfriends are, and half of the guys would reply it's looking at their girlfriends when they are fast asleep.

I gotta agree. Guys love gazing down upon your peacefully sleeping face when you're looking all sweet and serene and vulnerable. Yeah, it makes us feel manly, macho and protective inside.

Even when in reality we're actually quite fat and chubby.

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Those are my 5 tips for the girls. Nicole has 5 tips for the guys too.

When is the moment when you find a guy (or a girl) most gorgeous?

Tell me your stories.

Thanks to HUGO Fragrances, the most interesting two stories by a male and female will each receive the new HUGO XY EDT 100ml for him or HUGO XX EDT 100ml for her. Contest is open to all Malaysian residents and ends 12:01am 29th October.

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253 Comments:

Well put, couldn't agree more.

Posted by: Rand at 25 October 2007 10:28 AM | Link to comment

Yes I couldn't agree more.

Posted by: deriku at 25 October 2007 10:29 AM | Link to comment

I think my man is most gorgeous is when he holds me close to keep me warm and secured on a heavy rainy day under an umbrella. His strong arms over me makes me feel so protected and he does not mind getting wet himself just to make sure I do not get into the rain.
Its these moments that I keep falling in love with him over and over again.

Posted by: Racheal Kow at 25 October 2007 10:29 AM | Link to comment

You are very true of that... :D

Posted by: jane at 25 October 2007 10:30 AM | Link to comment

awWwWwW!


:DDDDD

Posted by: SueAnna at 25 October 2007 10:33 AM | Link to comment

Apart from your 5 things Kenny, I am going to add another 5 of my own:

1) The looks they have on their faces when they think really hard. e.g., reading a map, figuring out how to parallelelell park.

2) Their smile when they think you just became their hero. Kill me, babe.

3) Their white lies. Yeah! I know guys who just get the kick out of listening to "Um, uh, this weekend I need to... uh, *cough*study*cough*..."

4) Boobs. Aw, c'mon, we men are all pervs anyway. Tell me your eyes don't turn when you see bouncing boobs.

5) Boobs. Hey, did I mention that already?

Posted by: F Stream at 25 October 2007 11:07 AM | Link to comment

The moment when i feel my girl is most gorgeus is when she is taking care of me like a kid.Cook for me,taking care my small and little things.I just love the feeling and it make me feel i'm protected by her in another way round.

Posted by: Anson at 25 October 2007 11:12 AM | Link to comment

Wow! For me, the most gorgeous a guy is, is when he is concentrating on something. Doesn't matter what he's doing... He might be playing online games, fixing the sink or reading is favourite book. I just love the macho-full-of-drive look... *swoon...

Posted by: slowcatchupkuan at 25 October 2007 11:25 AM | Link to comment

The moment when my GF read the SMS message I wrote for another girl (duh...! collegue only!). Her shy & jelouosy face mixed together. Priceless... haha

Posted by: Chris at 25 October 2007 11:27 AM | Link to comment

Oh...everything he does makes my heart flutter. Some of them include;
1. Yes...watching him sleep and hearing the peaceful snore. (it's seriously cute until it interferes with my sleep)
2. The way he would dress up for dates and start tugging at his shirt cuz he feels uncomfortable in it
3. When he randomly buys me stuff he thinks I would like, the sheepish grin that goes with it and the happy smile that comes after I like his gift.
4. The best one was when he eats my horrible cooking, lovingly i must add, even though I know it is disastrous for his stomach. My hero! *swoon*

Posted by: Orion at 25 October 2007 11:37 AM | Link to comment

i like it when my man tears.

-No i'm no sadist-

Posted by: arianna at 25 October 2007 11:42 AM | Link to comment

my hubby is most gorgeous when he is ...

reading a story with our kids and laughing while his eyes is on me...

Posted by: icecubeb at 25 October 2007 12:00 PM | Link to comment

I find a guy most gorgeous when he's looking all serious, be it when he's driving or cooking for me or walking around naked looking for his boxer!

Posted by: Sharon at 25 October 2007 12:01 PM | Link to comment

Unfortunately, the post is limited to pure physical attraction, which is by-far the most important thing nowadays.

But then again, reading the title of the post (which I just did again 'cause I had no idea what else to type), this is about what men like in women, in general. (Notice the the plural version of man and woman).

In my not-so-most-humblest opinion, what we men like about women should be catagorized into steps, not items.

Take for example, first you see a girl, you like how she looks. Then you talk to her, to see whether she's a total air-head, and then whether she is able to communicate and deal with our lame-pick up line. Yes, we MEN use pick-up lines knowing they're lame and hopefully you WOMEN can appreciate the dumb funny lame-ness of it.

When I go up to a girl and say, hey, someone should re-arrange the alphabet and put "u" and "i" next to each other (which som1 did on this keyboard...whao!). Do you actually think that I'm suggesting the alphabet really be re-arranged? WHAT THE??

To go a step further, it'd be nice to be shot back with another pick-up line. Or the line , "If I could re-arrange the alphabet, i'll put "F" and "U" next to each other" . Hhahahah

So what I'm trying to say is, what I like in a woman, is her body, her mind, then her soul. And of course I'm not going to go into the soul part cause thats just too "lo so".

By the way, I love chicks...

Posted by: kewl_guy237 at 25 October 2007 12:06 PM | Link to comment

yay!! at last, 'she' appears in your blog!

Posted by: who at 25 October 2007 12:06 PM | Link to comment

Seeing your beloved in a beautiful gown all dressed up for a formal dinner. Be it 100x that first few seconds is always magical eventhough spending hours waiting,walking,cursing looking for the dress,shoes etc. It just doesn't matter.

Posted by: Gcsy at 25 October 2007 12:20 PM | Link to comment

The moment when I find my guy most gorgeous is:
1) When he put on his best smiles at every kid who pass by him.
2) When he talk to stray cats who cross his path.
3) When he pats every dog like his own.
4) When he kisses me on the forehead before saying good nite.
5) When he knows the answer to all my questions no matter how absurd they are.

Posted by: niquole at 25 October 2007 12:30 PM | Link to comment

When is the moment when you find a guy most gorgeous?

1. when they show cleavage and u found chest hair...
2. when they stop going to gym and muscles turned to fats ---> big fat round tummy. (cuz big fat round tummy represent safe and comfortable)
3. when they wear pants on their waist (not drop till the butt)
4. when they smile (instead of act cool)
5. when they stop acting like jay chou....

Posted by: alicia at 25 October 2007 12:39 PM | Link to comment

hey kenny i am totally agree with no.1 err and no.4..

well for ur question, the moment that i couldnt take my eyes of him is after shower..dressing and get ready to work/outing with me, then innocently ask me 'syg..how do i look" awwhh..handsome n gorgeous man ! u know got that feeling like want to take off his clothes back..haha..

Posted by: aireena at 25 October 2007 12:42 PM | Link to comment

guys are cutest, vulnerable even, when they are having their meals/eating. that 100% full concentration ON the food is just amazing! no amount of nude babes can ever divert their attention (or so i'm assuming lah).

guys are the coolest, when they get down from their beloved car, just to help the old folk cross the roads.

guys are most gorgeous, when they are surrounded by the prettiest girls you can ever find, yet they still openly expresses *you* are the queen of their hearts, and mean it. to the girls.

Posted by: Leishia at 25 October 2007 12:47 PM | Link to comment

1.when i had sprain my ankle,he checking and comfort me nervously.seems like he bearing my pain.
2.when he play with pets and child or babies,this scene most attract my sight!i love family man!
3.when i just come out from bathroom with towel on my body,he coincidently come into the bedroom.he seems get shock when saw me in towel and his face turn red to neck!wow...how cute he looks!
4.when he plays basketball or badminton.cool!that is man's battle!
5.mature man.Who knows a lot of thing.can settle problems easily.oh god....he is my superman!

Posted by: star at 25 October 2007 12:49 PM | Link to comment

my bf loves it when i "sa-jiao" to him. i don't know how to phrase it in english. cant find the right word!:D

Posted by: yanrong at 25 October 2007 12:51 PM | Link to comment

The Moment i find my girl gorgeous ...

1) Putting all her pink seat covers , pink wheelcovers , pink hellokitty tissue box , pink hanging dolls , pink pillows and everything pink inside my car , 3 years ago , when she was still in high school when we first started dating .

2)Getting really annoyed waiting for 1 hour in the car when she do make ups with her cousins but when she came out , gave me a ' i am sorry , for making u to wait this long ' angel smile , i forgave her and lost my unhappy feeling for waiting

3)When we go shopping , she ask me wheter this dress is nice or not , and i say no , because i think its not , and she said ' You have no taste ' ,( then why ask me ? ) but i think thats cute ..

4)Kiss my cheek and hold me close , when i was feeling down for being rejected in a singing audition for Astro talent quest , She waited for me outside the room and hold me saying ( it needs luck , its not your voice , your voice is great )

5)When we have our first kiss 3 years ago back in my car while listening to Jay Chou and Landy wen's duet ' Wu ding ' ...

This are all my unforgettable memories .

Posted by: Elliot Lau at 25 October 2007 12:53 PM | Link to comment

girls always complains about guys eyes looking at girls brest or thier ass everywhere we go.. I have to admit~~ YES IS REALLY TRUE!!.. cause our eyes is like a sensitive sensor which will point to a sexy girl who walk pass us.. this can't be control u know.. but we r not as crazy till follow tht sexy girl back home or others.. anways in the other word.. IF GUYS IS NOT PORNY THEN GIRL WON'T HAVE BABIES.. i must make this right.. my word PORNY is not having sex around.. don misunderstand..

Posted by: hanfoong at 25 October 2007 12:56 PM | Link to comment

The moment when guy most gorgeous is when;

1. When he comes out fresh from shower with clean shaven face and smells of the soaps linger on his body;
2. When he holds your hand unexpectedly, when he notices someone else is watching you;
3. When he said, "Oh poor baby" when we complained about our PMS and the pains that we have;
4. When he sweats after working out in the park;
5. And, when he listen to all your whimpering and cries and give his shoulder for you to cry.

Posted by: claudia at 25 October 2007 12:58 PM | Link to comment

For me, its just watching my gf fuming quietly inside after an argument.The kind when she is half angry but still wanna big hug sorta look.

Posted by: Boogle at 25 October 2007 1:04 PM | Link to comment

My girlfriend is utmost gorgeous when she's without any makeup. It's the natural beauty that matters the most to me. We've been 4 years together and I find her most attractive in the most natural way. I'm aware that the coat of powder means confidence and beauty to the feminine, but what we desire the most is the sincerity and love right from your heart. In short, makeup doesn't buy love, it buys attention.

Posted by: Kok Weng Tan at 25 October 2007 1:28 PM | Link to comment

How about when girl fixes her hair? I find it really amusing (sexy) to just watch it

Posted by: David at 25 October 2007 1:35 PM | Link to comment

I find a girl is most gorgeous when she is in her pajamas, and when she is lying on the bed falling asleep.. I think the sight of a girl in her PJs are really gorgeous and sexy..

Posted by: ccf at 25 October 2007 1:45 PM | Link to comment

When my man gets angry/desperately mad and lashes out at me over silly things like running under rain or mistakenly drink the sour milk, when in truth, he's simply worried that I might get sick.

SOunds like a sadomasocist no? :p

When he forbids me doing things because he thinks he can and also because he's being a big tease.

When he says he sleeps better with me at his side.

When he swears!! Because he rarely does so.

One particular time, when he jumped on his motorbike and speeded up to my place when he heard I was sick. He arrived bare-foot :). And it made him even more gorgeous when I heard the whole thing from a friend.

Posted by: dodol at 25 October 2007 1:49 PM | Link to comment

Hah!!! An attractive guy? *mischeivious smile* Well.... the butt for one...

*slaps self to seriousness* Ahem. To just name a few...

1) When he blunders, and laughs it off.

I absolutely adore a man that dares to shyly admit he's done something stupid. When a guy actually stands there to ask for your help, (because maybe he doesn't know how to fix together that IKEA cupboard, or the sink just squirted disgusting puky stuff all over him) with his face going pink from embarassment, it is so cute I have to laugh. And when he laughs with me, it's the cementing attraction.

2) When he makes me feel secure.

If I weren't feeling well, and he walked behind me on steep stairs and said "I'll catch you if you fall." It is a swoon worthy moment. I might actually have fallen just hearing those words.

When we're walking through a mall, and he grabs my hand in his. The gesture is one that provides both of us with that added comfort, that feeling that shouts to the rest of the world "Nyeh nyeh, we're together and you're not! Bleh!!!"

In a hug. Hugs that you never want to end.

3) When he argues politics with me.

I love a guy that respects my intelligence. He could be reading a piece of controversial news, and the first person he calls to debacle it with is me. "Did you read that piece of trash ... minister said on the ... for the bloody ...!!!" When he can respect and ask for my opinion, get angry over a cause WITH me, and often enough, join MY causes, it is too sexy for words. A man with a healthy respect for the opposite sex's brains, are men with real brains and balls. Oh, and that righteous anger? Goddamn HOT.

(Of course it doesn't have to be politics, but that is usually an area guys tend to belittle a girls expertise in)

4) When he offers a helping hand.

I'm cooking up a storm, and he's standing at the door, wondering what the hell the asparagus on the stove are called, and what kind of meat is roasting in the oven, and whether it is safe for him to open to freezer without incurring my wrath over a dessert that was 'setting'. That helpless look on his face is priceless, and makes me want to grab him and kiss him right there and then.

Although the sweetest moment comes when, he tentatively walks into that domain, scared to be rejected, and scared to be accepted, and asks if you need any help.

*swoon*

5) When he's looking bloody sexy at the gym, in a tux, at the pool, and in his 'after work business suit demolished' outfit.

Guys have no idea how much time girls actually use to stare at their torso's, butts, faces, in gyms. We did it far more discreetly than the ametuer man's ogling. But hell, a guy all sweaty, skin tight, muscles pumping, with a towel swung over their shoulder and that look of intense concentration on their face, is downright edible.

In a tuxedo. I don't have further to go than to mention every girls american movie dream, to point out that all the male leads we love, have one time or most times, been in tuxes. A tux gives every face that look of confidence and character to make a girl giddy. Combined with the smooth tones of his suit, that flow over those now defined shoulders, are enough to make a girl beg you with her eyes to cross the room to her.

At the pool, when a guy is laughing, and screaming 'banzai!!!' before cannonballing into the water. It's such a small act of childhood plus machoism, that it's hard to resist. I love, a guy laughing, and having good honest fun.

When he's frumpled getting back from work. The tie undone, half his shirt come untucked, and his hair mussled. Do I have to go further?

There are a million other ways a guy is sexy. And there are a million other reasons I love guys. But since Kenny only pointed out 5, I'll stick to the limit.

Posted by: Jillian at 25 October 2007 1:49 PM | Link to comment

yay!! at last, 'she' appears in your blog!

Posted by: who at 25 October 2007 12:06 PM


LoL!

Posted by: frankie at 25 October 2007 1:50 PM | Link to comment

the way he always hold my hand with his left hand...driving only with his right hand in his MANUAL car. there are times when he needed his left hand too...he would place my hand gently on his lap... occationally, i could feel a little bulging in his pants. *gasp*

Posted by: eliz at 25 October 2007 1:58 PM | Link to comment

1. When u r angry! Yelling ur head off b'cos I forgot to put up the toilet seat when I pee!

2. When u r cooking my food!

3. When u look at me helplessly when u got a flat tyre!

4. When u r realy 'hor ny' & want me to do some 'pokeing'!

5. When u jump with joy when I give u a surprise gift!

The above are the 'moment' when I find my gf most beautiful!

Have a nice day!

Posted by: HORNY ANG MOH at 25 October 2007 2:01 PM | Link to comment

how a guy can steal gals heart away?

i think a laugh n sweet smile some times enough attractive...when guys amaze on what gals did 4 him....or his 'touched' n appreciate look after we gals do something especially to him...tats y gals will not mind to sacrifice...=)

beside,guys is sexy when they serious in their work...when they try so hard for some thing...at that moment his eyes is just full of passion...

when a guy suddenly kiss n hug the gal without letting her have any preparation when the gals in bad moods and need care from him....he can be the sweetest guys in the world because she know he there for her...

Posted by: cialyn at 25 October 2007 2:06 PM | Link to comment

Find a guy most gorgeous when:

1.They do the most unmanly thing like when they are willingly to help us buy girls stuff e.g. sanitary pads when we need it.

2. When he find my giggles cute and will giggles

3. When he said he love to hug me, just to feel my body's warmth.

4. When he just come out of the bathroom, with just the towel around his waist.

5. When he would just entertain my silly requests like piggy back :P

Posted by: Chloe at 25 October 2007 2:15 PM | Link to comment

'When is the moment when you find a guy (or a girl) most gorgeous?'

In the nude of course!.

Posted by: cialis123 at 25 October 2007 2:17 PM | Link to comment

He is most gorgeous when he tries to
impress her by fixing her broken pipe.

He is most gorgeous when he is being a
gentleman by opening the car door for her.

He is most gorgeous after a football match,
eventhough he is all sweaty and sticky.

He is most gorgeous when he argues with
her, but later realizes it isn't the right
time to defend his ego, hence, compromises
with her.

He is most gorgeous when he sacrifices his
time with the boys to be with her.

He is most gorgeous when he never fails to
give her a call, even when he's busy.

He is most gorgeous when he buys her roses
for no apparent reason.

He is most gorgeous when he buys her ice-cream
just to make her feel better after a horrible
day.

He is most gorgeous when he gazes at her with
his dazzling blue/green/brown/black eyes. (okay, the colour of the eye isn't quite very important)

He is most gorgeous when he cuddles her in his strong arms, giving her affection and at the same time providing her with a sense of security.

Posted by: krys at 25 October 2007 2:23 PM | Link to comment

I love it when my girlfriend gives me all these cute names and justifies how she derived it.

e.g.
hunny bunny, to bun bun, to baa baa (sheep sound) to the current one.. bang bang

Oh, and I love it when she creeps behind of me and gives me a hug while I'm busy doing my hair or something or rather =D

Posted by: Samuel Dang at 25 October 2007 2:24 PM | Link to comment

When he sees a line of ants, pointed out his finger and pushed them to dead one by one and said, "don't die, please don't die, I told you not to die", when I, on the other hand was yelling helplessly, "NO! NO!".

When he puts on my favorite fragrance then hugged me tightly leaving the fragrance on me.

When he does something silly like wetting his pants after pooping coz' he was trying to wash his butt with water, the tissues ran out.

When he sings to me my fav. James Blunt - You're beautiful, tunelessly.

When he cries over the phone like a baby.

When he wears his g-string with a pair of semi-transparent boxer.

When he puts on my nipple tape.

HAHAHHAHAA...


Posted by: Baby Jee at 25 October 2007 2:24 PM | Link to comment

As for me, the magical moments with him:

i. When he secretly looks at me with his sly smile

ii. When he gives me a pek at the cheek when i 'merajuk'

iii. When he gives me money when i am broke..hehehe

Posted by: Rina at 25 October 2007 2:25 PM | Link to comment

Top 5 moment for a guy:
1) When she comes over to me while watching tv and just quietly sits beside me and places her head on my shoulder (thus allowing me to get a whiff of her hair)
2) When she looks at me tentatively when she knows she's in the wrong while giving me that cute puppy eyes
3) When she places her hand on my neck and give me a little squeeze while I'm driving
4) When she would cuddle up to me whenever she can
5) Know when to be matured and when to be playful when the time comes

Posted by: KG at 25 October 2007 2:30 PM | Link to comment

This is a bit subjective, so let me put it this way.

A guy is gorgeous
1. When he just came back from work, with his working attire on. Formal office wear, first button unbutton. (Nothing close to being perv compare to man, of course). And when he rolls up his sleeves, hair slightly messy and give the girl a tired smile…damn, you had me there already. Do that everyday; we don’t mind, really.OH, DID I MENTION bout the MASCULINE cologne scent???

2. When he is generous (Yes we girls luuuuurrrrveeee money okay; not like you guys are going to believe us if we deny) BUT IN THIS CASE it is more to his HEART and ThINKING. His matured, well educated mind will suck all the soul out from the girls. It would be such a turn off if you see your boy friend whining and complaining about you meeting your ex. This could only mean 1) he is not confident enough 2) He doesn’t trust you. Come on girls, why do we have to date a KID?
A matured man should be generous and with this point itself, you already showed how macho you are.

3. When he is with a baby.
No kidding. As much as you guys like to see girls with baby; we girls like to see guys with babies too!
Guys with their masculine appearance and manly ego; and when they are around with a baby (innocent and vulnerable)…will cast a bio-chemical-scientific effect when we girls see it. Orgasm!!!

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NOT!
It is the look on their face. When you look at your man (usually strong, masculine..if not, fat, chubby..whatever it is…) with a baby on their hand…the looks soften. With a soft smile (again, that’s a headshot) that’s what I call SEXY.
That is the moment when you really wish you are a professional photographer and capture the whole freakin moment.

4. When he is driving.
Yes. There is just this THING with guys and cars. Can’t really put it in words. When a guy is driving, his serious, relaxed or cool looks…just priceless.
There is no need to stress on this point more. Guys and cars, work for every girl.
Unless you are really really bad at driving or parking. Then try to work on point 2.

5. When he is SMART
Smart and humble.
A guy who knows when to shut up and when to state his opinion is the most attractive guy.
A guy who talks a lot but has nothing in his brain is an empty can. Loud but empty.
Whenever you smart guys out there answer the question we asked; properly and with facts; honestly…we always got the urge to jump on and kiss you.
Kidding.
More like, deep inside our heart, we really do admire and worship you.
Look; you can change with money.
But knowledge; is just HOT, naturally. Is like a beautiful girl without makeup. Its so natural.
Works all the time.

Posted by: crabster [TypeKey Profile Page] at 25 October 2007 2:38 PM | Link to comment

I find it the most attractive and sexy for a girl is when u dunno whether they r smiling o nt, but obviously they are looking at you...Tat's jz too hot..and of coz, when they smell really really pleasant, like after bathing in a tub of perfume.

Posted by: Nicholas at 25 October 2007 2:43 PM | Link to comment

i like it when guys:

1# talking to their frens in a lil table but still sneek his eyes and land it on me. when our eyes meet, i will feel important or special for tat moment.

2# when they treat u the same around their frens. some guys o shall i say most guys seriously act different with their all-guy company than with our mutual fren company and my frens. they tends to treat u more harshly o slighty rude at times make fun of u. i guess they feel more superior and macho in front of their frens. ish~

3# when he hugs me from the back. the feeling are safe and sweet. felt so loved.

4# when they cook when v're sick. it might taste lk crap but it's the concern tat i can taste.

5# when they give tat one-of-a-kind smile to hint us tat v're talking too much tat he cant understand.

Posted by: qnie at 25 October 2007 2:45 PM | Link to comment

I love it when she makes herself jealous at something that she imagines it in her mind.
I remember this one time where she came up with a theory that I am having an affair with my maid and that she was jealous at her because my maid lives in my house and the she doesnt, my maid gets to wash my boxers and she doesn't, my maid gets to cook for me but she doesn't. Because we're having a long distance relationship now, I once jokingly said that I was calling my maid to talk to her, she got jealous and hung up the phone. haha. As ridiculous as it sounds, it was utterly funny and somehow I fell in love with her all over again.
How can anyone get mad at something like that eh?

Posted by: Samuel Dang at 25 October 2007 2:45 PM | Link to comment

I remember that I used to have this amazing crush on a girl, but I never acted on it, either due to pure stupidity or fear of her rejecting me. In fact, she actually asked if I 'Liked her that much', since I always joked I would like to marry her someday. I sensed something in her words, and just waived it off.

Since she wasn't local from where I studied, we hanged out one day and we decided to visit the Eye on Malaysia (weird choice, but we promised each other we'd visit before the year was over), on the worst day of all, which was Valentines.

Now, the thing she didn't actually tell me was she was TERRIFIED of heights, and she didn't say it until we were on the gondola itself.

Almost immediately she wailed and closed her eyes tightly, asking if it was over. It was that moment, when she seemed so frail and afraid, yet amazingly childish, innocent, and truthful that she seemed the most gorgeous to me. I tried not to hug her, but held her hand instead which was having an iron grip on the seats and tried to comfort her, asking her to open her eyes. Amid wails, it was amazingly cute to see her try to enjoy the view while she dug her nails into my hand.

I guess her being so innocent, frail, and needing someone to be there for her made me tell her how I felt about her there and then. Sad to say, she rejected me. But then her face back then will always be tuck in my head, cause she was most gorgeous then.

Posted by: William at 25 October 2007 2:46 PM | Link to comment

1) the sound of his voice in the video he recorded playing with his baby boy
2) when he struggles with his dslr to capture my most hideous look
3) his control-macho face when i love the restaurant he chose (this is when my plate is full of everything)
4) he'll make an ugly face the instant i said he's cute (the pujian happens on rare occasion, but still love u dear)
5) when i beat him on the ps3 ,,v(^^,)

ps: alamak... i feel like having crush wt my boyfriend everyday la

Posted by: Byha at 25 October 2007 2:50 PM | Link to comment

The most priceless moments....

1. He will still hold your hand or waist(publicly) even after few years of marriage

2. Be with you in delivery room.. (even though he's scare like hell)

3. Give you a big hug when you feeling down & listening to his heartbeat (which is very calming)

4. Smelling the same sweet smell of his body (especially when he's using dat particular cologne..purrr)

5. Thinking about you when you're not with him..

Posted by: Cassiopeia at 25 October 2007 3:01 PM | Link to comment

When is the moment when you find a guy most gorgeous?

Personally, when he is concentrate on doing thing,such playing game,having breakfast,reading newspaper or 'oh~ah~'-ing... is the most gorgeous moment.

Posted by: Pink Leo at 25 October 2007 3:13 PM | Link to comment

The way our eyes meet across the room when we're at a party and you give me that slight smile that shows that you're still thinking about me.

The carefully placed post-it between my exam notes reminding me to remember to breathe and that you love me regardless of my exam appearance!!

When you text me during a guy's night out that shows that you miss me.

When you endure the 'painful' shopping trips buying what you consider at mindless additions to the neverendingevergrowing closet, and then try to make the best out of the trip by having coffee and having a good meal to 'keep you going' for the rest of the shopping trip.

But mostly, you're most gorgeous...

when you're simply...you.

Posted by: cryptic29 at 25 October 2007 3:26 PM | Link to comment

i find a girl most gorgeous when they have their hair tied up...

there's just something about that lil' exposed spot on the neck.. just slightly below the ear.. very sexy .. ;)

Posted by: brianbrian at 25 October 2007 3:34 PM | Link to comment

Hi, new here, interesting topic..
I like it the most when:
1. looking at my GF giggles like a baby
2. her puzzled face when ever i give her a complicating question.
3. when she's sad n suddenly receive an ice-cream from me.
4. her pity face when i need to go.
5. her reaction when wanna ask me for a favor...

Posted by: V&W at 25 October 2007 3:39 PM | Link to comment

oh ya... those are the 5 moments i really find that special HER gorgeous..

Posted by: V&W at 25 October 2007 3:40 PM | Link to comment

A guy is most gorgeous when he looks you in the eyes and says 'I Love You' (even though I know I'm not the first and the last person he'll say it to)

A guy is most gorgeous when he tells you 'Everything will be okay', even though you know it is not! (at least not so soon)

A guy is most gorgeous when he works hard to bring home the money for the family. This is priority. This is responsibility.

Posted by: Caydensmommy at 25 October 2007 3:49 PM | Link to comment

hey, think men should be gorgeous when;

1. He looks into my eyes and said, "Babe, thanks for the night and hope you have a sweet dream. Good nitez." And this follows by a "soft" kiss on my forehead.

2. He gently reached my hand, rub it few times with his warm & "tough" palm, and slowly put my hands into his jacket's pocket while we're outside the cold and chilly night.

3. He puts on my "Doraemon" apron with a "cooking spade" in his right hand, boiling pot on the stove and reading the cooking book as if he understood how to cook the porridge when I'm sick.

4. He was jovially telling a joke but it's not funny at all and it ends up both of us staring at each other for few seconds, laughing because of embarrassment. Hahaha....

5. still thinking, so to be cont'.....


Posted by: yyee83 at 25 October 2007 4:01 PM | Link to comment

The moment i find a guy most attractive when he shows me his sexy back instead...:P

Posted by: Babe at 25 October 2007 4:02 PM | Link to comment

my man is the most gorgeous when he carries and plays with our new born baby :)

check out my post:
http://thaiboxingirl.blogspot.com/2007/10/about-other-very-important-man-in-my.html

Posted by: TBG at 25 October 2007 4:04 PM | Link to comment

guy make my heart melts when:-

1#he noticed a wound on my knee
like aww~ how sweet he actually notice tat small cut n concernly asked how i got that cut.

2#tolerating wid me during my PMS
i'm really ridiculas n easily irritated by small tiny things but he'll remain quiet and try his very best to confort me..(feel real bad bout it..hehe)

3#guy tat stand up for me
remember there is once i got accused and got a really harsh scolding from my fren then he came n stood infront of me telling tat guy off..like omg!!i nearly cried not because of the scolding but felt the security from my him!!*puppy's eyes*

4#love love love guy tat offer me a jacket
i really enjoy watching movie..den there is once i went out a movie wid him wearing a tank top(was not a planned one)after half a movie i started to move a lil here n there..suddenlly he took off his jacket and covered me!*so nice of him*

5#baking me cookies
was craving to eat cookies one day den i kinda hinting my sis to bake it for me but she refused to while he was there.(really sad)however the next day i found a jar of cookies n a card saying 'baked some cookies for u.love,ur baby'

all these moments are just priceless!!!

Posted by: qbie at 25 October 2007 4:16 PM | Link to comment

Gorgeous isn't the exact word i'd be using here.

anyway, this happened a long long time ago when i had my first boyfriend.

he's the average kid in our school, nothing flashy. there was this time when he was supposed to find a teacher (we were both class monitor then) and came back 15 minutes later panting, saying he couldn't find her. so i went. 5 minutes later i found her, he was very grateful and had this surprised and 'dreamy look' on his face.

ever since then, he'd be secretly looking at me dreamily and i did saw it once from the reflection of our school's 'tingkap'. he'd be so startled when i turned and look at him, and would think of something lame which he uses EVERYTIME he wants me to shift my attention, "look, a fly!" and i'd be happily playing along and smiling, lost in my own cloud-nine.
a friend of mine actually took a picture of him staring at me, it was priceless.

sadly, i lost the picture (hard copy); i cherish that memory very much.

Posted by: iamshort at 25 October 2007 4:50 PM | Link to comment

That's sweet... =)

Posted by: gc at 25 October 2007 4:51 PM | Link to comment

Many girls fantasizes about the 'perfect' boyfriend, or just plain dreaming / wishing for prince charming to come waltzing along into their lives... what I have to say is "WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!". For me, the best boyfriend or the best traits that attract me to a man would be far from the so-called "Rich & handsome prince charming" of every girl's fantasy.
Lets just be realistic here... Actually, it's those simple things that men do subconsciously that makes them seem so IRRESISTIBLE!!

1. When they are sensitive to people around them (espcly their girlfriends!).
I simply *melt* when a man shows that he is sincerely concern about you, or your family, or your friends. This shows that he is caring and loving. Sometimes, they may not be good with words, but hey, he did try his best! and that's one of the trait that attracts me to a man! Like, how my ex used to show his concern for me, especially when I was under a lot of academic pressure, or how he gets really worried when I fell sick, or how he really understands when I had my monthly PMS mood swings. Sometimes, it's those non-verbal cues that makes him shines through.

2. When a man is in control of situations.
Admit it! Girls totally *swoon* over guys who are in control! I know I do~ ;)
I personally find my man attractive especially when he is driving. Heck! He drives 95% of the time when we were together, just coz he likes being the one in control. Relationship-wise, it's more of a mutual thing. But I usually let him take charge, even though internally, both of us know who's leading the way! *winks* You gotta give some space for his ego too, ya know?!
Moreover, men just *love* to be the HERO in every danger, don't cha think? *Imagine Superman coming to the rescue of a damsel in distress* It just gives you a sense of protection, and just knowing that he'll always be the one who catches you when you fall~

3. When he shows his softer and more vulnerable side.
This doesn't mean that you can crush his ego as you like. It hurts! Anyways, I'm not contradicting my 2nd statement as I say this. It actually means that deep down under the oh-so-macho and manly exterior of his, there's a softer and gentler side of him that touches your heart, and makes you feel fuzzy on the inside.
Plus, I just couldn't resist when a man actually portray some act of sincere kindness and vulnerability, even when it means that it's "not a manly thing to do" to most guys out there. but heck! To many girls, it's a GENTLEMAN thing.. =)

4. When a man willingly makes sacrifices for you. (no matter how big or small those sacrifices were).
At this point, you know that this guy is really serious with you! Heck! It gives you such a great confidence boost that you actually feel on top of the world~ There were times where my ex just spend time chatting with me (more of listening to my ramblings and complaints) on the phone when he was in KL, and I, in Kuching, though he's busy. There was once that we spent 4++ hrs on the phone at night, and he ended up only having 3 hrs of sleep, and has class the very next morning. Poor guy~
And I especially like the fact that he actually quits smoking for me as well, just coz I don't like the habit.

5. When he cooks.
For a man to get all dressed up or in suits or tux may make me drool like any other girl would. But for a man to be in t-shirts, shorts, and aprons, makes me drool even more! Maybe it's just the fact that I love homely guys, or prolly it's just that I can't really cook!
And maybe it's just that seeing a man cooking for you shows that he is the kind of guy that you would consider having a long-term relationship with.

To sum it all off, it's those simple acts, pleasures and *sweet* moments you share with him that makes it the cherry of the cake!

~*cheers*~

Posted by: eve at 25 October 2007 4:54 PM | Link to comment

Open minded girls are most gorgeous.
They are willing to share whatever things that happen to a female and in return we(men) can share ours too. Sometimes, when guys start a 'taboo' topic (such as sex, masturbating etc etc...), girls would shun away. But open minded girls don't mind joining and talking such issue without shy. This just shows that open minded girls can make a good life partner as they are willing to share their problems, thoughts, views on any topics...

Posted by: Albert at 25 October 2007 4:56 PM | Link to comment

the 5 things she does, that put the "boom-boom" into my heart:

1. fanning herself on the neck with bare hand
girl, the weather's hot, but u're wayyyy hotter. the way she tilts her head a little, exposing her sexy neck while fanning herself with her 5 widely spreaded sexy fingers is like giving out signal to the guys, saying "come and blow me on my neck, lover-boy".

2. blowing her forehead hair (刘海)
the way she moves her lower lip forward and blow up towards her forehead hair to expose her forehead for a slight second is like playing a "now u see, now u don't" trick to the guys.

3. tidying her hair behind her ears
the way she pushes her hair to sit behind her ears. it moves my focus to her ears.

4. tying up her ponytail
the way she carefully hold every strand of her hair and tie it up tidily, while i observe from behind.

5. various mouth/lips gesture, especially when she's concentrating
i believe all guys are attracted to the motions of the lady's lips.

Posted by: jy at 25 October 2007 5:09 PM | Link to comment

To me, i think guys are most gorgeous when they..

#1 Smile
-especially the loopsided one. When they smile, it gives you the warmth.. the cuteness.. i mean, guys dat smiles actually let u know dat they can give u hapiness and make u happy. let it be fat, skinny, tall short.. u jus get dat feeling. i'm pretty sure guys feel the same way when a girl smiles.

#2 Act like a man
-"be a man". guys are just wonderful, when they take good care of girls, and act responsibly. of coz, i'm not just saying dis because i'm a girl myself.. honestly, they are just cute when they try to act like one. and copy those seriously chessy moves from korean or taiwanese drama. when they send you home.. wait for ur car.. every single thing like dat means alot. knowing dat u're safe and he'll be there.

#3 they are romantic
I love it when guys actually put in their heart and make something out of nothing. Instead of buying a card, they put in effort and time, drawing out little balloons, cutting out hearts.. us girls, LOVE it. whether ugly, pretty, small big. we just love it. knowing dat u're sincere and serious.

#4 Try to cheer you up
They basically act like a clown, anything. just to see ur lips curl up. THough we don't show how much we appreciate it. deep down inside, we do.

#5 Are just themselves
This probably is the most important bit. Guys are gorgeous in every single way. Dats why we go for guys instead of girls. every single thing bout guys should be appreciated. =)

Posted by: littlepumpkin at 25 October 2007 5:29 PM | Link to comment

not here to comment to win stuff.. But i think, panties show out from the pants/skirt is a NO NO!! Big no no... That's why low cut undies are created.. Showing panties off are SO NOT sexy... *eww*

Posted by: huiting at 25 October 2007 5:30 PM | Link to comment

I have one sweet memory.It was my birthday and he came to pick me up from my hostel.We were studying back then.He was in Setapak and I was in Shah Alam.I wasn't expecting much since he's not the romantic kind.But then he drove me to Taman Tasik Titiwangsa (I know it's dark and quiet but it's not wat u think,now keep to the story) and I asked him where are we going? Why come here? And he said there's a restaurant here."Really???!!!" I asked.And he said yes.I asked,"What restaurant?" He replied,"Kancil Restaurant".I was thinking to myself,"Geez...wat an unromantic restaurant by the judge of the name.and M'sians really boleh to come up wif such a name.like those roti BOM,roti proton etc...."
Then we finally stopped.At an empty parking lot!!! Then he told me to get down.By now I'm confused and started to get paranoid.Is he some kind of weirdo? What kind of trouble have I gotten myself into?? Then he told me to go behind the car,and he opened the boot.
I swear I melted the moment he opened the boot.Inside was filled with balloons,crepe papers with all kinds of colours and a love-shaped box of Ferrero Rocher chocolates.And a birthday cake!!! HOwever,this is not the end.When we went back to his place,his room was also filled with balloons and romantic decorations.I have on more birthday present,an anklet.To tie me to him forever. :)That night I was a melted "chocolate".
Such sweet effort.Nothing melts a girl more than a well-thought out plan for a special occasion.There's more qualities of coz,but I decided to tell one full story as an example.And oh,why Kancil restaurant? Coz he was driving a Kancil. :)

Posted by: Melted at 25 October 2007 5:38 PM | Link to comment

wonder how u cope kenny? hell of tiring just reading those bo liao comments...good luck man!

Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 25 October 2007 5:39 PM | Link to comment

You asked us to make our comments more interesting, eh???

Then why on earth you chose a kiss-ass, dull boring comments to be the winner???

Posted by: Chris at 25 October 2007 5:39 PM | Link to comment

Guys are most gorgeous when

1. They get determined.
Even when its for the stupidest thing like getting a green mnm out of the packet, the determination. damn.

2. They bother to do their hair.
You gotta give them credits. no?

3.They give in to your "girl instincts" and finds it amusing. :)

4. They stand up for something infront of their friends. That takes guts and macho-ness.

5. They are not being a sore loser.
say after a football match, they go " good game brothers " eventhough they lost. thats something. :)

Posted by: yy<3 at 25 October 2007 5:41 PM | Link to comment

AS for me..what I can say is girls are most gorgeous when they..

1) Sit down or lie down quietly by your side and she look at you..just the silent moment that she look at you innoncently.. n usually after that couples smoooched..hehe

2) Laugh so loud and even snorted when you tickle them with your jokes or your sweet mouth.. and in worse case scenario..you really tickle them to laugh and toss around cos of the itches..

3) They stood down there and nearly burst into tears of joy(especially she suddenly appear in front of her room door in the middle of the nite)..due to SURPRISES(birthday,valentine or anniversary) that you gave to them!! Big or Small surprises but meaningful to them..and just run to your chest (if you are tall enough) and hug u so tightly..

4) Smile at you after you some time that you didn't meet..and they just say..HI BABY!!

5) When they nearly cried or even cried after some events..whether is after you just got them jealous and they refuse to talk to u that much..or when they really miss u so much that they can't bear to leave u or over delighted..

Wish there is more than just 5.hehe..any just try outs..ciaoz

Posted by: eric at 25 October 2007 6:04 PM | Link to comment

her smile

Posted by: rd at 25 October 2007 6:07 PM | Link to comment

girls are most gorgeous to me when they do the things they dislike together with you just to spend time with you, like watching a football game together when she doesn't even know the rules and screaming 'goaaal!' together with you when your team scores and being there with you when your team just suffered a loss.

thats what I find most gorgeous in a girl.

Posted by: Jesse Liew at 25 October 2007 6:10 PM | Link to comment

1/When a man is concentrating at his work, he is very attractive, especially if he did a good job afterall.

2/When he tells you what is right to do, and his way actually works

3/When he put in effort to cook a meal for you, eventhough the quality may not be promising.

4/When he helps you out from your miserable nightmare, he will be your hero forever.

5/When he treats your family like how he treats his family, to the good side.

Posted by: fern at 25 October 2007 6:19 PM | Link to comment

When is the moment when you find a guy most gorgeous?
I would have to say: When a guy is being totally honest with you. Like telling you his utmost true feelings (i.e. not trying to act all macho and brave. Hey, guys are vulnerable too), being sincere and serious. When a guy tells you things that are deep inside (his feelings & emotions), to me he's displaying his most vulnerable side of him and he's willing to share all of that with me.It doesn't matter whether we are an item or not but even if my "guy" friends do that, I would find them most gorgeous and I would swoon over them.

Posted by: Vy at 25 October 2007 6:21 PM | Link to comment

I personally (and may haps some do agree) find my guy most gorgeous when

He does that thing he does

He gives big bear hugs

He gives soft little kisses (regardless of where they may be *wink*)

He asks for a back rub (and says thank you after too ^_^)

He is in his boxers *yea...*

He is clean, shaved and smells of steam
*drool*

He dresses up (Yes, suits are definitely a turn on)

He talks to his mom. I mean seriously, the only other woman he'll ever love as much, if not more than you! Listen eh? ^_^

He makes those little noises

He habits on the little things he does

He pats my head, and tells me everything is gonna be better

He is simply being him. Love the simplicity =]

Posted by: Iva at 25 October 2007 6:21 PM | Link to comment

Gorgeous is defined by me as a beauty of divine attraction. For me when I found the right girl, it's all about her that is gorgeous. The times that I took my camera and took a photo of her and comparing what is in the camera and herself being there is unmatched. A photo is frozen beauty, but in life she is a living beauty.

The part where I am at a distance from her even with all the technologies that can connect us, it still could not match the times I came out from the airport terminal, with my whole body gushing with adrenaline to see her. And as I saw her face and her smile, it is as if there is a glow at her back. The words “You look gorgeous” here makes her glow even more. It almost made us dance in the airport, Hindu style. With Kuch Kuch Hota Hai theme at the background, and the pillars as the trees.

Another gorgeous moment of her is when she eats. Men are always cincai when eating, as long as the food gets to be stuffed in our mouths. She always eats as fully mannered as possible. How she slurps spaghetti up quietly to the point she uses the silverware to block where the sound is coming from. Eating Popiah with your favourite chili sauce gently and left some of it at your lips makes me want to wipe it off with my hands.

For many times I see her, she will be always forever gorgeous in my life. I think it’s time to dance at Kuching International Airport while running up to Starbucks.

Posted by: Emory at 25 October 2007 6:39 PM | Link to comment

Can I give ten?
Ten reasons why I find you perfectly adorable...
One. You always make sure that we eat at the same time, even if we were separate at the moment, we still have to eat at the same time.
Two. You start a silent conversation with me from across the room whenever you catching me looking at you.
Three. You make funny faces, even in front of tons of people, just to make me laugh.
Four. You fondly refer to me as your wife-to-be.
Five. You let me use my pen to write on your exposed skin in order to pacify my need to draw tattoos.
Six. While I'm asleep, you stay up for hours sending me tons and tons of text messages so that when I wake up I have tons and tons to read from you.
Seven. Even though you complained that it made you feel weird, you still carried my very girl-y bag and my humongous teddy bear because I was too lazy to do so.
Eight. Even though I asked you why so many times already, you still tell me all the reasons why you think I'm great just cause I asked.
Nine. You send a text message that says "I miss you" after five minutes of separation.
Ten. You grab every single moment and chance that you can to squeeze an "I love you" while having a conversation with me.

But that's just because he's my man really.

Posted by: jana at 25 October 2007 6:46 PM | Link to comment

moments when I find a guy most gorgeous...

1. when he wakes up early in the morning looking like a scruffy dog
- they just look adorable and gorgeous.... like a lil boy

2. when he gets all mushy and teary over a new born baby
- especially when it is your first and waiting all this time to be a dad

3. when admitting when he is in the wrong
- i just love that in a man..... no fear in losing face

4. when I told him I was pregnant
- he had this soft and loving look as well as excitement....

5. being a goof ball
- without humour in our lives...it would have been dull

Posted by: hathyia at 25 October 2007 6:47 PM | Link to comment

Love you darling!

Posted by: hathyia at 25 October 2007 6:48 PM | Link to comment

Haha... that was sort of part of a letter that I was giving to him... but heck it's for him lah...

Posted by: jana at 25 October 2007 6:49 PM | Link to comment

I think a guy is gorgeous when he trusts you with his vulnerabilities- when he knows that one day you'd have spent so much time together that he wouldn't be able to hide it from you anyway.

I think a guy is gorgeous when he decides not to get into a relationship with you- because he thinks you need time to grow in different aspects of life and he thinks a relationship focussing you on him would take you away from the important lessons you need to learn.

I think a guy is gorgeous when he remains your best friend- and listens to you cry because of him. And comforts you without it being about him.

I think a guy is gorgeous when he worries every time you say you like him- because he is afraid one day he will lose your friendship because of it.

I think a guy is gorgeous when he offers to pick you up early in the morning and drops you at university, even when he stays in the opposite direction, likes you, isn't your boyfriend and doesn't plan to be any time soon because of point 2.

I think a guy is gorgeous when he tells you that you're beautiful- not to score brownie points but because he believes every girl needs to be valued.

I think a guy is gorgeous when he is himself, when he wants you to be yourself, and he wants to help you be more than you are, all at the same time.

I think that guy is gorgeous and I'm thankful he actually exists!

Posted by: Sophie at 25 October 2007 7:02 PM | Link to comment

l love it when me n my gal are playing around with kids..be it in the garden or the shopping mall..

secretly..i wished the kids we're playing with..is ours..hahahha

Posted by: xiang at 25 October 2007 7:05 PM | Link to comment

I find a man most gorgeous when..

1. He's workin or concentrating real hard to do something
2. He is kind towards animals. Gestures like picking up a poor kitten from the road or feeding a hungry dog
3. He lifts me up and hold me tight and tell me he'll always be there for me
4. He's always there to make me feel better when I'm upset
5. He tries not to cry but simply can't hold back his tears

Posted by: May at 25 October 2007 7:19 PM | Link to comment

The way a girl's head ducks down a bit, her shoulders come up, her eyes glance askew, and she puts her hand to her mouth in a gesture of "oops"

That literally puts a sweet taste in my mouth.

Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 25 October 2007 7:54 PM | Link to comment

The way a girl's head ducks down a bit, her shoulders come up, her eyes glance askew, and she puts her hand to her mouth in a gesture of "oops"

That literally puts a sweet taste in my mouth.

just_justinc@hotmail.com

Posted by: justin at 25 October 2007 7:55 PM | Link to comment

i find that the best moment is when she laughs/smiles/giggles...it is as if they are in their own happy little world...n a guy can't help but just stare at her...i mean, a guy will never even give a second glance to a moody girl...we only enjoy the happy, giggly ones...i hate to admit it but i do stare at my girl friends when they laugh or smile...it's amazing...~fin~

Posted by: ridzyroo at 25 October 2007 8:02 PM | Link to comment

You know what Kenny? Women are gorgeous because they always do things with love and care. Everything they do are always in detail. Like all the thing you've mentioned, make up, playing around with kids.. when they are doing that, they are concentrated with their motherly love.. which is the thing, we men kinda lack of.. and also, we're all borned and raised by mom .. that can be seen when lots of men thinks that they wanna be the kid the women are playing with..so we always like that feeling of being love or seeing a manisfestation of love in front of our eyes and we know that we are being loved.. Women are special, full of love, caring and longing... while Men are also special, resembles security, protection.. The Most High had indeed made us in such beautiful way...

Posted by: S.Hasenbalg at 25 October 2007 8:03 PM | Link to comment

5 things guy attract girls:
1. The way he smile
2. The way he respect girls
3. The way he take up responsibility
4. The way he thinks maturely..can know by talking to him
5. The way he cares...

Posted by: Justagal at 25 October 2007 8:06 PM | Link to comment

There are heaps of moment that I find a (my) guy gorgeous and each moment just makes me want to hug him and be overly generous with my kisses. But I find that moment when a guy wakes up at dawn and just watches you sleep most gorgeous of all.

As he waits for you to wake up, you probably know that your hair is at its worst and your breath totally reeks. But for him to be able to still look at that hell-of-a-mess and feel the same intensity of love as the first day he fell head over heels for you, just attracts me even more and makes me fall madly in love with him over again - BUT a little bit more…

I find it uberly (very) gorgeous when he start fiddling with your nose which he often teases it being big and whispers to your ear a secret code where only you and him knows what it means. ‘Boo boo noseeeeeeeee’ ‘Boo boo noseeeeeeeeeeeeeee……’ he increases the volume of his voice trying his hardest to wake you up simply because he wants and needs to talk to you so badly and just cannot wait another minute to find out what you’ll say. Now that is a guy at his gorgeous moment for me


Posted by: Jane at 25 October 2007 8:16 PM | Link to comment

The things I like about guys?:

1. his little-little surprises, like when he quietly holds my hand and smiles to himself or buys me an ice cream when he feels that I am down. (the littlest things that a man does are actually one of the biggest!)

2. when he looks me squarely in the eye and tells me he's sorry (admit it, guys don't like to apologize coz of their coconut-sized ego. but when he breaks down that wall and apologizes for his wrongdoings, it shows that he's different from all the other useless guys that I've met)

3. when he quietly listens to every word I say when I am angry or upset with obvious concern, and when I am done ranting he tells me that he understands and that everything will be alright, gives some reasonable advice and obviously worries about me for several days.

4. when he pours the contents of his heart out to me - when shares with me his wants, fears, dreams and his sweetest memories. It shows me that he trusts me with his heart, and it shows me that he's a living, feeling, warm-blooded human, and not a cold-blooded buaya that I for some reason keep running into.

5. when he cares for me unconditionally like a brother, jokes and fools around with me like a best friend, and loves me like I'm the only woman alive in the world :)

Posted by: Reika at 25 October 2007 8:22 PM | Link to comment

a guy is most gorgeous when he looks at you with a daze that only exists after he's had really good/great/mind blowing sex(with you of course!) and that look in his eyes tells you everything that is running through his mind and somehow or rather, reminds you how much he loves you and why you love him so.

Posted by: lj at 25 October 2007 8:27 PM | Link to comment

hha...from this post...i sure u r.....A GUY!!!

Posted by: rawpotato at 25 October 2007 8:29 PM | Link to comment

Gazing into each other's eyes, being around his arms listening to his heart beat, how his hand easily find mine and fit in perfectly...

basically just being and getting lost in his presence, even when there's no exchange of words. silence is also a form of communication, because you know there's always mutual understanding and trust between the both of us.

and when you look at him, you couldn't help but putting a smile on your face. because, he's the man that you fell in love with...that's the most gorgeous moment.

Posted by: Melissa at 25 October 2007 8:30 PM | Link to comment

I will be on top of the world if she agree to marry me. I haven't had the special moment yet. But i am certain that she will be most gorgeous the moment she wanna tie the knot with me. Imagine that she is willing to spend the whole life with me, Have our own family, have our own kids... and sarifice her everything for our own family. How sweet that will be

Posted by: Ah Fan at 25 October 2007 8:39 PM | Link to comment

1. When he breaks out in a sweat
This is awfully sexy. It signifies manlihood, for a moment, you don't mind having a taste of his sweat. (P.S. This does not apply to men with BO as the odour is quite a turn-off)

2. When he looks into your eyes and tells you how much he loves you
Enough said. What can be more gorgeous than being in the centre of attention at that very moment?

3. When you wake up to see him sound asleep beside you
That innocent baby-like affection on his face. The best part : you can say whatever you like and he won't know. :P

4. When he has tears brimming his eyes and hugs you to say, you are all he has.
As dramatic as it sounds, but it does feel good when someone accentuates how important you are to him.

5. When you know that he's the man in your life, everything about him is simply perfect.

Posted by: trishy at 25 October 2007 8:47 PM | Link to comment

AHA!

this is easy~ ;)

when he gave me a 'fang lang qi' (erm..you know those lil key chain soft toy things with a little alarm inside? it's supposed to make shrill noises when ur in danger of pervs and robbers and be something like an alarm thing) for Vday last year.

WAHAHAHHA~~ the alarm was hidden in a FROG soft toy. hahaha~ i know it's not the MOST romantic thing but i FEEL that he's gorgeous for thinking of something that's..erm..useful..and so funny. :D

oh wait..maybe he just wanted to make fun of me. ==! darn..din think of that....

Posted by: FRESH.OYSTERS at 25 October 2007 9:21 PM | Link to comment

Dude. You sound like u're very in love!!

Posted by: The Horny Bitch at 25 October 2007 9:38 PM | Link to comment

I find a guy most gorgeous when.... he accidentally farts but blames it other guys around him... omg... his face when telling white lies or denying he did it can be so adorable/macho and smack-able at the same time... =D

Posted by: Amber at 25 October 2007 9:50 PM | Link to comment

Hell of a lot of pictures of Nicole turning up! YEAH! That's a good thing. But what would Mr Freud say???

Posted by: Matt at 25 October 2007 9:55 PM | Link to comment

Never forget that moment when I was kissing her, looking into her eyes and asked her to marry me, she gazes and kisses me in a way that I want to be saying "I've already married you and I love You" (Means my proposal being accepted).

Cuddled her to my bosom, I know she would be there forever and for the rest of my life.., when I kissed her again, she leans on my chest tenderly with a droopy/sleepy eyes.....

Before I knew her, ever believed If you love you would accept every single shortcoming. She's neither pretty nor gorgeous, however in my eyes, she is IN FACT real gorgeous and has drunken me for the rest of my life.

I Love You. B@NY.

Posted by: Toi.S.S at 25 October 2007 10:03 PM | Link to comment

Everytime when my girlfriend is reading or studying..i would sit beside her n juz stare at her..hoping she would stop her work at chat with me...everytime she'll pretend to ignore me and continues her work...n finally she couldn't tahan d n she gave me a warm smile...she was d most beautiful lady on earth to me at that moment(Dear u do look pretty at other times too).

She gorgeous everytime she stares into my eyes n eventually turn away smiling because shes a little shy...she gorgeous everytime she jokingly said she doesnt care abt me...she denies ever loving me n yet in d end she hugs me like i meant evrything to her..shes gorgeous when she's about to leave n smiled towards me before we parted...looks back n smile again before she leaves...And everytime wen i kissed her on the cheeks shes smiling happily while pretending to be not happy( im sure she does though...and im not a perv...) She just teases me alot...

Posted by: Richietkl at 25 October 2007 10:14 PM | Link to comment

I love it when my guy returned home at 4am after whole night of DOTA in his friend's place, leaving me alone at home (!!). I would pretend to be asleep when I heard him unlocking front door. Then enjoy every second when he repeatedly planted (guilty-guy-left-girl-at-home-and-returned-to-find-she-is-fast-asleep-tired-of-waiting-for-him) soft kisses on my forehead (as not to wake me up).
All is peaceful... until I spotted the moment to give a LOUD BOO that SHOCKED the unsuspecting poor soul out of him (I am evil afterall).
What normally ensues is a small argument on how DOTA SIN is not worth heart attack at 25...

Anyway, there is a lovely peace in knowing he kisses you even though you are fast asleep and cant return the same loving gestures. A lovely affirmation I suppose.

Posted by: sie at 25 October 2007 10:17 PM | Link to comment

For me, the five reasons would all be the same particular one.

A girl looks most attractive when you are not supposed to be looking at her.

Be it when she's sleeping, changing or whatever not, the idea of doing something you know you shouldnt be doing just turns on the adrenaline tap.

Now, aint that true?

Posted by: Gs at 25 October 2007 10:23 PM | Link to comment

1. I really love it when my girlfriend calls me up in the middle of the night or really early in the morning just to check up on me and see how am I doing when I'm sick or home alone. Sometimes i just pretend that I'm lonely and tell her that I can't sleep so that she can call me up and just be with me.

2. When I'm studying, and she's sitting next to me, she leans forward and rest her head on the table and looks into my eyes and get me distracted from my work. I stare back into her eyes, she smiles, and I just wanna kiss her

3. She gets me all worried by sending me smses like "Hey, we have to talk.." or "I need to tell you something." and then I ask her what's wrong, heart beating, my face swells up, and she replies, "I just wanna tell you that I love you so much."

4. When we fight, I get angry and my girlfriend gets angry and a few hours later, she calls me and tells me that she doesn't like us fighting, she says sorry even thought it isn't really her fault. I love her so much for that, and i really hate myself sometimes for not apologizing earlier and instead letting her do so, but it's so nice to know that she loves me and doesn't want our fight to get worse.

5. When it's a stressful weekday, and I'm in plain clothes at home, and someone, one of my good friends whom my girlfriend are close to, would call me up, saying they are outside and they wanna collect something and when I go outside, my girlfriend would be standing there with a big grin and I start smiling and blush. The effort she puts into planning a surprise visit really lets me know that she's the one for me.

That's why I love her :)

Posted by: Brian at 25 October 2007 10:23 PM | Link to comment

Me: Hey, when is the moment when you find a girl most gorgeous?
Him: When I see YOU walking out of the shower all nice and clean with your hair still tied up (to avoid getting it wet).

So, when do I find a guy most gorgeous?
When he automatically thinks of me when asked about questions like these.

Posted by: AO at 25 October 2007 10:29 PM | Link to comment

5 things I love about guys -

When they offer to drive when you go out,
The way they wait and ensure you have entered your house without a doubt..

The extensive knowledge they have about hardwares and the computer,
The relieving thought of knowing you have someone to turn to when you are caught in a technical blunder..

Their towering and comforting presence when you are out on a cold late night,
How they almost visibly radiate heat and safety under the moonlight..

How they act all Man when they are out with their buddies,
Yet with us become all soft and exquisitely tender like our bedroom teddies..

and lastly
What works is when he is confident of himself in the past, present and future,
As ultimately that's what that brings out a guy's innermost character.

Posted by: rachel at 25 October 2007 10:47 PM | Link to comment

The gorgeous thing about a guy is that he could resist shouting over his girl or cursing her simply because of her mood swings, whether is she in PMS or not. It's very tough for a guy to keep his head cool especially when the girl was being bitchy and really unreasonable, and that's what a guy hates the most. Which is why you have to count your blessings if your guy actually tries his best to keep his temper under control when your mood is really down the drains, because what you said might be illogical, and you might apologise for saying that the next day, and even if you don't see it, your guy will be hurt or feeling less love over what you've done. So yea, I love my guy for that.

And speaking about PMS, if your guy ever massages your belly while you experience the worst cramps every month of that time, be thankful. If he buys you chocolates, and visit you whenever you feel the pain, be thankful. If he ever tells you that your suffering every month is actually for the sake of bearing your children with him in the near future, be even more thankful. That was the best things I've heard from my guy. And I still treasure it even though he has forgotten about it. Because those were the most gorgeous thing he did when I'm in the worst times of my life. Believe me, it's pain as hell. So who doesn't like a guy who knows how to help a girl soothe her pain eh? ;)

Just my thoughts. See ya. And great blog Kenny. Keep it posted.

Posted by: wookie at 25 October 2007 10:52 PM | Link to comment

A post that touches my heart, i'm ur silent reader all the time... and after reading all the comments that u've received, really sweet and touching words from ur readers... well, i started to think too...

When are the times when HE makes me feel on top of the world... and feel that it's ok to be a princess forever instead of a tough queen...

1. When he kisses lightly on my forehead, both cheeks, my nose and my lips before every goodbye...
2. When i know i'm pretty and perfect, at least to him... no one is 100%... but it's owiz sweet to know that i'm treasured and pampered so much... just like a pearl in the palms of his hands...
3. When watching him sleep... hearing his heart beats... his snores... and feeling his body warmth... covered by his arms... having him around, i feel so secure...
4. When he brightens up my day again after arguments... looking at things that he done for me... just to bring back my smiles once again... and confident too... it's amazing that he did it every time...
5. When i turn to him... and i have him there to provide me solutions to make things easier... and kiss away my tears... he's the one i can cry on... lean on and count on...

When i'm a nothing, i still have everything because of him. someone i will always love...

Posted by: Lisa Yap at 25 October 2007 10:53 PM | Link to comment

The moment i find a girl most gorgeous is when i get to wake up earlier den her and watch her rise for i know that she had a wonderful night in my arms and the sleepy face lets me know that she appreciates me.

Posted by: Vincent Myst at 25 October 2007 10:56 PM | Link to comment

kenny, did you thought about how women would evolve in some way with you posting this entry? now more women are going to apply make up in public, in front of their men. more women are going to go "gugugaga" over babies in front of their partners when the truth is they despise those little creatures. every store which sells perfume will have to put up the "SOLD OUT" sign for more women have started to use gallons of perfume. imagine going through a shopping mall filled with ladies bending over pretending to pick up a one cent coin when actually RM100 won't even mean that much to them but they'd still pick up that friggin one cent just because you said men like sexy backs? and instead of looking all sweet, serene and vulnerable, we're all now going to act cute while we pretend we sleep.

hehehehe.

aaaanyways. the moment i find a guy most gorgeous ought to be the time when he buys gifts for a girl. be it just a simple rose, or a new fragrance, they find it hard to look for the right gift. eeeeven when its a lot easier to shop for girls rather than guys.

but whats precious is when they struggle so hard thinking about what to get for their partners.

you dig? LOL.

Posted by: joyce at 25 October 2007 10:58 PM | Link to comment

totally agree to wat u hav mentioned..would love to giv few more suggestion.
1#guy that trust me
would call n check every now n then on me when he noes i'm going out wid guy frens

2#sensitive guy really melts my heart
notice a wound on my knee is really very sweet or just simply remember my fav food n drinks

3#guys tat noe how to bake
some ppl might call them sissy but i really hav a soft spot for guys tat noe how to bake

4#surprises once a while
not onli on special occasion but once a while bring me a short note/card o even roses especially during my PMS period

5#a guy tat stay just by my side
whenever somethign bad happen o i just need to complain and a guy tat offer his ears n attention to all my complains and finally giv me a warm hug saying everything will be just fine really melts my heart

Posted by: bie at 25 October 2007 11:00 PM | Link to comment

i love guys tat..
*will just giv a warm smile when u glanced o look at them even tho they dont know u
*drive wif their left hand placing their right hand beside the window

Posted by: jamie at 25 October 2007 11:07 PM | Link to comment

This applies to who i'm happily stuck with. I find him gorgeous or cute or however you perceive it when..

one. he comes up with the world's cheesiest lines that give me goosebumps in the wrong way and sounds like shakespeare on the loose. i quote him, "you are the gem of my heart." note that i almost choked upon hearing that yet found it sweet.

two. when he starts singing 'sheena easton - my baby takes the morning train' out of tune when i'm trying to sleep.

three. when he's completely engrossed with his PS2 and the rest of the world disappears and he looks like a giant sized 5year old.

four. when he silently mumbles when i nag at him to clean his room or go shower and acts all innocent when he realizes i heard what he said. his favourite line for that, "oh my god! you're like friggin pringles. once you pop, you can't stop!"

lastly, when i pull major pranks on him like convincing him i was going to sell him off at bukit bintang and he sulks at me. just something adorable about a grown man yet something else beneath that.

well, there many more little things i find completely endearing but i chose to mention the oddest one's. why you may ask? i guess its just the mere simple fact that sometimes its not always the sweet little things that matters so much or really attracts us to someone. it's the little annoying things that he/she does that we somehow find completely endearing eventhough at times we hate the fact of it but yet feel weird without.the person might not be perfect but its just those annoying yet endearing magic of what they do that gravitates us toward them.

so think about it once more. asides, the hugs and kisses and roses and surprises there must be more. it's something nice to never understand yet be able to laugh about it.

Posted by: Jini at 25 October 2007 11:15 PM | Link to comment

5 things that make a man gorgeous:

1) the way he smiles at you like there's no other person in the
room but you.

2) the way he shows his concern over everything that you do.
Eg: when you're sick.. he constantly texts you to see how
you're doing.. making sure you've taken your medicine.

3) when he makes jokes that he knows arent funny but he makes
them anyways just to put a smile on your face.

4) when he would stand uo or defend just practically anyone or
anything that he believes is right.

5) when he is just being himself.. chilling with mates.. laughing
the night away.. bottom line.. when he is him..

Posted by: Ying at 26 October 2007 12:14 AM | Link to comment

The moment I find a girl most gorgeous..

A girl to me would be most gorgeous after she had done something that satisfied her, be it a speech in public, a charity runway fashion parade or even after completing a pile of work at the end of a day's work. A girl is most gorgeous when she have that smile or look of satisfaction!

Everytime i pick my gf up from work, she will give me that smile, that look.. from the distance as I my car roams towards her. My eyes could only focus on one thing, which is her. As if everything around her just become a blur.

A girl would also look gorgeous when she is waiting for someone to come back to her. The moment she sees you at the airport's arrival hall, at the ship's docks or the train's railway tracks. The expression of anticipation, of utmost joy. When a girl's heart is beating rapidly, at time of anticipation.. she would be in a state of bursting out. All joy would break loose when she finally sees you. :)

Posted by: Ken at 26 October 2007 12:20 AM | Link to comment

naw.... I am not going to try.
With the number of fans you have, i take my chance with4-D, better.
It is relaxing & at times humourous to read your blog. Hey, how did u manage to snap such good pictures, esp. the ones on Nicole, u got her natural looks & touch, very unique & soft in a sense. (pardon me, no dirty thoughts from me, ok). Good luck to your project, keep jerking but keep the dirty staff out.

Posted by: William Wang at 26 October 2007 12:37 AM | Link to comment

i like guys when they

~wipe the dirtied side of my mouth and the way the look at my shy expression

~give me a short msg like "morning baby" when he wakes up and "nitez" when he wanna sleep. i felt tat he starts his day with me n ends it thinking about me.

~totally stressed out but yet call to ask me to say "i love him".

~he hug me from the back and peek a kiss on my neck when i am focussing doing something.

~rush over just to hug me and say it's ok at my down times.

Posted by: nie at 26 October 2007 12:46 AM | Link to comment

She couldn't cook... when she knows that I missed some food back in home country, eg. Hainanese Chicken Rice and BBQ pork, she drew 'em out on Micr-s-ft Paint. That was cute. It made me smile from the underneath me all the time, and I have been keeping it as my wallpaper all the time....

Did I tell you she failed art?

Posted by: ArR at 26 October 2007 1:00 AM | Link to comment

i find a guy most gorgeous when:

1. he plays futsal, badminton, basketball, whatever. also when they tumble and fall and hold their knees and rock back and forth in pain and start shouting something totally random and irrelevant and cute :D anyway guys are always gorgeous doing sports :)
2. he tries to impress me. example by speaking in his banana accent or a dialect which niether of us are familiar with (and then he assumes he's right etc although somewhat...barbaric).
3. he radiates his scent. i'm not being sick but it smells really ,really good! i mean, some guys may seem macho with their shirt off and all but the scent evaporates if they do that :( it makes stripping such a hard decision. okay, enough elaboration.
4. he goes shopping with me (ah, what a darling), and sit on the couch situated right at the entrance of every shop or any bench nearby outside the shop (in fact, i think they prefer this as they can spot for babes) giving me that stupid face that says "i rather watch porn".
5. when he denies that he is drunk when he obviously is and starts laughing idiotically adorably and pulls me close and starts kissing my nose instead wtf

Posted by: jo at 26 October 2007 1:10 AM | Link to comment

Gorgeous is in the eye of the beholder.

Seriously. ;)

That is all.

Posted by: fome at 26 October 2007 1:12 AM | Link to comment

I find a man most gorgeous when he offlines, and onlines to get my attention, and then if I did not PM him, he offlines and onlines again.

Awwwww. Sweet!

Posted by: chingy at 26 October 2007 1:18 AM | Link to comment

when you use HUGO BOSS XX FRAGRANCE THE SWEET BLEND OF FRESH AND MASCULINE THE PERFECT AROMA AND THE MOST AMAZING SCENT EVER...WITH JASMINE FLOWER AND A STRONG DEFINITIVE SCENT. . . . . .

i win. and how dare you call me not entertaining

Posted by: skim at 26 October 2007 1:19 AM | Link to comment

i like it when he...
1. cooks food for me when i am tired from class or when i'm sick or he when he just feels like it. there's nothing more warm and fussy then a guy cooking for you.

2. is freshly out of the shower. This is when he smells so so nice, and looks so so clean. We girls love that fresh, crisp, macho smell on our guys too. What, did you think only guy can smell tat feminine/masculine aura??

3. when he looks at me with his puppy eyes,trying to get my attention. You know what they say about woman and their maternal instint, that gets triggered when you see something cute and looks pity eventhough in real life that might not be true. Well, he uses that trick on me all the time and gets away with it.. ( cook for him, help him massage...)

4. when he is concentrating and memorising his materials. That serious look on him, that feel of responsibility i get from him when he is trying hard in life. It gets me to believe that we can overcome all the difficulties in life together.

5. when he hugs me tightly in his arms. I feel so safe and protected in his arms that i demand for at least 2 hugs a day! :P one in the morning, and one at night, that's how much i love his hugs!!

Posted by: kittycat at 26 October 2007 1:44 AM | Link to comment

When he is sleeeping; that extreme long and curly eye lashes, that rhythmic breathing with occassional retarded snore, that smoothen-out frowning lines, that messy soft hair, that closed up lips that are awaiting to be moistured, that most peaceful baby look of him, have never failed to make me wanting to shower him with endless soft gentle kisses all over as though that's the most precious thing in the world.

When he is getting his hand ready, before you reach him; that patiently waiting expression on his face, watching you walking slowly towards him, that firm and tight grab when our fingers eventually crossed together, make me want to have my hands to be held by his forever.

When he doesn't know how or what to react when I start staring at him out of no reason for more than 10 seconds; that tad of embaressment and uneasiness, that slowly turning red face, and that cute lil round puppy eyes start wandering around, don't know where to lay his sight on, are simply too irresistable to not continue staring at him.

When he never allow you to feel left out in any occasions and his consistency in checkin you in if things are well; that bit of detailed observations, that understanding, caringness, gentleman-lity, that attitude of never take things for granted, that sense of security and reliability, that smile of assurance, that instant short and strong squeeze of his hands on mine, have captivated and melted my heart over and over again.

When he has his plans/views layed out and wanting to share with you; that confidence, that assertion, that moment of interactive mind and soul bonding session, make me know that this is the one man that I would like to walk through the sunrise and sunset with.

The list goes on...

p/s: I enjoyed reading your posts, never have it falied to put a smile on my face when reading it. =)

Posted by: Me at 26 October 2007 1:53 AM |