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04 May 2005
Its a Long, Long Journey

My father passed away today at 1:48pm.
I am heartbroken.
:: Posted by Kenny at 2:45 PM | Link | Facebook It
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202 Comments:
I am so sorry Kenny. There are no words to describe how sad I am for you right now.
All I can do is hope that your father went peacefully and that you were able to spend some good times with him before he passed.
Posted by: Shan at 04 May 2005 3:00 PM | Link to comment
My condolonces. Hang in there, and you'll pull through as the strong and good son you've always been to your dad.
Posted by: thefirstChristmas at 04 May 2005 3:03 PM | Link to comment
i'm so sorry to hear about your dad. please take care and god bless. :(
Posted by: eLaine at 04 May 2005 3:04 PM | Link to comment
I can't imagine how hard that must be. I'll be thinking about you from the other side of the world.
Posted by: Curtis G. at 04 May 2005 3:04 PM | Link to comment
My condolences, Kenny. I am sorry to hear that. Hang in there, and remember the stories that the two of you lived through together. He will always continue to live in your heart
Posted by: alwayswow at 04 May 2005 3:05 PM | Link to comment
my deepest condolenses.. so sorry to heard that...
please takecare... you must be tough... your family needs you to be so...
Posted by: davors at 04 May 2005 3:06 PM | Link to comment
I'm sorry, man.
Posted by: J Schnorng at 04 May 2005 3:11 PM | Link to comment
So sorry to hear about ur dad. I extend my condolences here. Be strong for urself, ur family and ur dad.
Posted by: dracolshian at 04 May 2005 3:15 PM | Link to comment
Kenny, He will live on in your memory. Be strong for the family and have a good cry when you got the chance, ok? Take care!
Posted by: lilian at 04 May 2005 3:16 PM | Link to comment
My condolences.
Posted by: doc at 04 May 2005 3:26 PM | Link to comment
I'm so sorry, Kenny. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Take care.
Posted by: Sashi at 04 May 2005 3:26 PM | Link to comment
Sorry about your loss. Deepest condolences to you and family.
Posted by: me at 04 May 2005 3:26 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences. So so sorry to hear this. Stand Strong..i know you can..
Take Care.
Posted by: Audrey at 04 May 2005 3:32 PM | Link to comment
so sorry to know about this. i can't imagine how gut-wrenching it is for u, but do hope that u will be strong for yourself, as well as for your family.
Posted by: whateverstreet at 04 May 2005 3:38 PM | Link to comment
my condolences to you and your family
Posted by: suanie at 04 May 2005 3:47 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss.
Posted by: mb at 04 May 2005 3:48 PM | Link to comment
sorry to hear that. my condolences. be strong ya.
Posted by: miche at 04 May 2005 3:51 PM | Link to comment
my heart goes out to you and your family for this sad loss... deepest condolences.
Posted by: faith at 04 May 2005 3:52 PM | Link to comment
We can say lots of cliches like "He has been released from his sufferings" and "Time heals everything". But as of now I don't think any of those words would be of help.
Just stay strong, keep you chin up and I am sure your friends will be there if you need anything.
Posted by: Kenneth Chiew at 04 May 2005 3:53 PM | Link to comment
Thank God for the fact that you were able to be by his side throughout the journey with him.
Im so sorry for your loss, and i just want you to know that people who hardly know you are praying for your family.
Take care, be strong..
Much love,
*hug*
Posted by: danu~ at 04 May 2005 3:54 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences...
He'll live in your memories...
Stay strong.
Posted by: sassyjan at 04 May 2005 3:54 PM | Link to comment
My deepest and most heartfelt condolences. I'm truly sorry to hear about this. Hang in there buddy...your family needs you now more than ever.
Posted by: bing at 04 May 2005 3:55 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences.
He'll live in your memories...
Stay strong!
Posted by: sassyjan at 04 May 2005 3:56 PM | Link to comment
my deepest condolences.
Posted by: alkacid at 04 May 2005 4:08 PM | Link to comment
thinking of you and your family all the way from here in this time of loss. but he was loved and had his family with him all the way. *hug*
Posted by: anantya at 04 May 2005 4:09 PM | Link to comment
Dude, stay strong. My condolences. I've been through this, it was really hard. Hang in there!
Posted by: Ivan at 04 May 2005 4:11 PM | Link to comment
Im sad to hear the news...but life must go on, stay tough and take good care of your mom...all the best to you kenny...
Posted by: kahsoon at 04 May 2005 4:13 PM | Link to comment
Dear Kenny,
I am so sorry. I have been reading your blogs for quite a while, and although you make everybody laugh with your entries, one thing I do know is that your love for your father is very very genuine and clearly... this comes as a big blow to you. I can only pray that you are strong enough to overcome this extremely trying period... and take comfort that you made the decision to come home and spend the past few months with him. He must have been proud to have you as a son.
I am not sure if you realise it, but you have somehow managed to reach the hearts of your fellow "blogders" (ok, I got it from xiaxue)... they laugh with you and they cry with you. Even as I am typing this now, I am trying hard to fight back my tears. You have truly touched the hearts of many. Especially your posts on your father. He will remain in your heart (and most of us out there) for eternity.
Take care of your mother, let her know you will always be there for her. She needs you now.
Take care and good luck.
Posted by: civil servant at 04 May 2005 4:13 PM | Link to comment
Hey Kenny. Been reading ur blogs since the day u wrote about ur dad.
Im so sorry to hear the news.
He's leaving for a better place. Be strong.
Posted by: Yueling at 04 May 2005 4:14 PM | Link to comment
Condolence,
May your father rest in peace.
Amen.
Posted by: CLF at 04 May 2005 4:23 PM | Link to comment
omg. my condolences. im so so so sorry to hear about your dad. may he rest in peace. take care.
Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at 04 May 2005 4:27 PM | Link to comment
Condolence,Im so sorry to hear that kenny.
Posted by: GAMBs at 04 May 2005 4:29 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolence. Take care.
Posted by: Peter at 04 May 2005 4:41 PM | Link to comment
My condolences, sorry to hear that bad news Kenny...
*observing 1 minute of silence*
Posted by: ashotiwoth at 04 May 2005 4:42 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolence.
be strong kenny.
Posted by: atuna at 04 May 2005 4:48 PM | Link to comment
kenny.....
=~(
Posted by: vss3t at 04 May 2005 4:49 PM | Link to comment
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to you and your family. You are the pillar to your family now, please be strong.
Life goes on.
Posted by: h.liew at 04 May 2005 4:51 PM | Link to comment
May your father rest in peace. Amen.
Posted by: Bart at 04 May 2005 4:54 PM | Link to comment
"In the passing of a loved one, it is not so much a time of grief but also a time to remember the good times spent together and celebrate his life"
My condolences.
Posted by: theblackjournal at 04 May 2005 4:58 PM | Link to comment
I'm sorry, Kenny.
Posted by: uzyn at 04 May 2005 5:02 PM | Link to comment
i'm sorry to hear that, be strong and hold on to your faith. deepest condolences to you and your family. regards, shadow
Posted by: ~shadow~ at 04 May 2005 5:09 PM | Link to comment
my condolences to you and your family. be strong
Posted by: primarybasic at 04 May 2005 5:13 PM | Link to comment
My deep condolences... Take care now...
Posted by: ah Boi at 04 May 2005 5:19 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences, Kenny.
Posted by: Koh Lee Onn at 04 May 2005 5:24 PM | Link to comment
I m so sorry to hear tat ur dad passed away... He will rest in peace knowing that u r a very good son to him...
Take good care of ur family esp ur mum, she need ur support right now..
May god bless u all..
Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 04 May 2005 5:42 PM | Link to comment
Sorry to hear that, hairy legs :( Take care yaa...
Posted by: PeNNyPupZ at 04 May 2005 5:46 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences, Kenny. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Posted by: SY at 04 May 2005 5:48 PM | Link to comment
my deepest condolences...please take care.
Posted by: 9 at 04 May 2005 5:58 PM | Link to comment
i'm so sorry to hear abt your father. I hope you and your family can be strong abt this. My deepest condolences...
Posted by: pandan at 04 May 2005 6:05 PM | Link to comment
I'm dreadfully sorry to hear that, my heartfelt condolences to you.
Posted by: lynne at 04 May 2005 6:06 PM | Link to comment
condolences
Posted by: Mossie`Ol Chin at 04 May 2005 6:07 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences... My prayers goes out to your dad. Please take care.
Posted by: thquah at 04 May 2005 6:09 PM | Link to comment
At least he was fortunate enough to have his family by his side. And it happened gradually too.. so in a way, take it as a blessing that his sufferings are over. You take care of yourself now, Kenny. At least you spent time with your father. Not everybody managed to do that. My condolences to you and the rest of the Sia family.
Posted by: Jayelle at 04 May 2005 6:13 PM | Link to comment
loss for words.. do take care plz.
Posted by: skategal at 04 May 2005 6:19 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
He may be gone but he will be always in your heart. Take care!
Posted by: Vivian at 04 May 2005 6:23 PM | Link to comment
I'm sorry.. take care and be strong..
Posted by: esther at 04 May 2005 6:24 PM | Link to comment
no words can comfort you at a time like this and reading your past entry i can tell your love and admiration for your father. I am sorry for your loss be strong.
Posted by: BiaTcH at 04 May 2005 6:28 PM | Link to comment
So sorry to hear this.. My sincere condolences to you and your family at this difficult moment..
Posted by: Diana at 04 May 2005 6:33 PM | Link to comment
Sorry to hear that, Kenny. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: Elizabeth at 04 May 2005 6:41 PM | Link to comment
I'm extremely sorry to hear this...I'm actually having tears in my eyes right now...I've dealt with such a thing before so I understand your feeling. Let this few moments be your mourning period, and after this, move on. I know nothing I say could change anything...My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: Lyon at 04 May 2005 6:43 PM | Link to comment
so sorry to hear that.. my condolences to u n ur family.. take care.
Posted by: crazy at 04 May 2005 6:53 PM | Link to comment
so sorry to hear that.. my condolences to u n ur family.. take care.
Posted by: crazy at 04 May 2005 6:53 PM | Link to comment
My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: EF at 04 May 2005 6:54 PM | Link to comment
My sincere condolences Kenny Sia. No doubt his passing is difficult to accept. Hope you and your family are able to draw strength from the wonderful memories you all have had with your father and cherish the time spent with him all these years.
Posted by: Not a gorilla at 04 May 2005 7:00 PM | Link to comment
hey there kenny, hang in there. Deepest condolences.
:_(
*hugs*
Posted by: yiing at 04 May 2005 7:06 PM | Link to comment
my condolence kenny.. bad news after your great description about your father in the previous post
Posted by: farking at 04 May 2005 7:07 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolence. My thought is with your family and you.
Posted by: tiuniasing at 04 May 2005 7:07 PM | Link to comment
I am awfully sorry for your loss Kenny. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Posted by: jordangoh at 04 May 2005 7:17 PM | Link to comment
I'm so sorry to hear that. Be strong for your family.
Posted by: Coppersnare at 04 May 2005 7:26 PM | Link to comment
i'm so sorry to hear that, kenny
*hugs*
take care.
Posted by: venus at 04 May 2005 7:27 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolonces Kenny.
Posted by: Anuar at 04 May 2005 7:33 PM | Link to comment
condolonces to your family.
Posted by: aunty at 04 May 2005 7:38 PM | Link to comment
...my deepest condolonces...
~take care~
Posted by: hui at 04 May 2005 7:40 PM | Link to comment
hey,
have been reading your blog recently, and my deepest condolences to you and your family. take care.
Posted by: daphyy at 04 May 2005 7:53 PM | Link to comment
Sorry to hear that.
My deepest condolences. *hugs*
Posted by: tEo at 04 May 2005 8:01 PM | Link to comment
Sorry to hear that. You take care now.
Posted by: mac at 04 May 2005 8:06 PM | Link to comment
my deepest condolences.stay strong okay.
Posted by: reallybites at 04 May 2005 8:08 PM | Link to comment
Condolences to you and your family. Take one day at a time...I hope time will make it easier.
Posted by: iblogme at 04 May 2005 8:09 PM | Link to comment
my deepest condolences.stay strong okay.
Posted by: reallybites at 04 May 2005 8:10 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolonces to you and your family.
I hope you'll be strong and take good care.
Posted by: joe at 04 May 2005 8:14 PM | Link to comment
sorry to hear that Kenny. i can emphatise, having been in ur position before. i hope u'll stay strong..though it's good to express ur grief.
HUGS
Posted by: Kher Ying at 04 May 2005 8:14 PM | Link to comment
I am so sorry for your lost. My deepest condolence. May he rest in peace.
Jon
Posted by: Jon Choo at 04 May 2005 8:22 PM | Link to comment
stay strong kenny.. ;o
Posted by: Syn at 04 May 2005 8:30 PM | Link to comment
Kenny, I don't know what it is. But for the whole of today, I already had that feeling that your dad is gonna leave. I had that feeling too when my mom left me 5 years ago. My condolences to you and your family. Always remember that your dad has been healed... no more pain, no more. Take care of yourself and your family. Stay strong!
Posted by: Selina at 04 May 2005 8:43 PM | Link to comment
Kenny, my condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: NSDS3HvLDjJd at 04 May 2005 8:49 PM | Link to comment
Although I dunno you in person but I am sure you are just as great a person as your dad is. Pls be strong for him and your family. Take good care of yourself.
Posted by: Ros at 04 May 2005 8:55 PM | Link to comment
My condolences to you and your family, Kenny. Cry hard ... then live hard. For him.
Posted by: Hsin at 04 May 2005 9:03 PM | Link to comment
kenny, my deepest condolonces...
I'm speechless. I've been following your blog recently and it reminds me of my late father as well.
He's still inside my heart and your dad will also stay inside ur heart. Take care.
Posted by: frostier at 04 May 2005 9:05 PM | Link to comment
My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: Jase at 04 May 2005 9:06 PM | Link to comment
deepest condolences to you and your family. may he rest in peace.
take care.
Posted by: shids at 04 May 2005 9:08 PM | Link to comment
sorry to heard dude. Hang in there
Posted by: nicktay at 04 May 2005 9:15 PM | Link to comment
im sorry kenny.. =(
deepest condolences..
please stay strong, and take care..
Posted by: dr3am at 04 May 2005 9:25 PM | Link to comment
Kenny,
my deepest sorry and condolences for you and your family. May your father rest in peace... may his happiness and all the good memories about him will be what always stay with you all forever and ever and celebrated!I may not know him in person, but I am very sure that he is proud of you and so are you of him! He is a very strong man..
Posted by: Jen at 04 May 2005 9:36 PM | Link to comment
My condolences Kenny. I sincerely hope that you will pull through in time....
Posted by: ElDiablo at 04 May 2005 9:36 PM | Link to comment
so sorry to hear that. you and your family take care...
Posted by: chasyss at 04 May 2005 9:36 PM | Link to comment
omg........
*gives you a hug*
my deepest deepest condolences kenny and... i really dunno wat else to say but, do take care k? *hugs again* i am so so sorry to hear about it, even though tak kenal u personally, but.. most sincere and heartfelt condolences from me, yeah? =/
Posted by: hsin the ee at 04 May 2005 9:39 PM | Link to comment
may god bless ur father all the way. hang in there, you'll make it through. gos bless.
Posted by: vivien at 04 May 2005 9:47 PM | Link to comment
*god bless...
Posted by: vivien at 04 May 2005 9:48 PM | Link to comment
My condolences Kenny.
Posted by: yingci at 04 May 2005 9:50 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences.
Posted by: Janus at 04 May 2005 9:51 PM | Link to comment
sorry for your loss.
Posted by: cccp at 04 May 2005 10:05 PM | Link to comment
I'm very sorry. Just keep the memories alive.
Posted by: kampung gal at 04 May 2005 10:09 PM | Link to comment
My condolences
Posted by: wingz at 04 May 2005 10:09 PM | Link to comment
Dear Kenny, my thoughts are with you and your family.
Posted by: Lisa at 04 May 2005 10:10 PM | Link to comment
My condolonces.
Stay strong Kenny.
Stay strong.
Posted by: KLJS at 04 May 2005 10:10 PM | Link to comment
My condolences Kenny.
Posted by: xes at 04 May 2005 10:12 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences Kenny. so sorry to hear tat.
Posted by: Ah WanG at 04 May 2005 10:15 PM | Link to comment
NAM-MO O-NI-TOL-FOR
I know it is disheartening for you and your family even though you know this moment would come. In the end, everything worked out for the best, he is now at a better place where there is no suffering, a suffering he had endured as his health declined in the past months.
As you flashed back in your previous blog, I notice that you very much appreciated and learnt from your father the value of hard work and ambition, and how much he meant to you, and that is comforting to your dad and is more than what a parent can ask for. I hope it is just as comforting for you to know that.
NAM-MO O-NI-TOL-FOR
Posted by: Pope at 04 May 2005 10:16 PM | Link to comment
Hey Kenny,
My deepest condolences to you and Jeffrey. Sorry for your loss. Hang in there buddy.
Niki
Posted by: Niki at 04 May 2005 10:20 PM | Link to comment
my condolences dude. cheer up soon .
Posted by: michaelooi at 04 May 2005 10:21 PM | Link to comment
he had found peace in his passing. now, you must find yours by living.
Posted by: shanks at 04 May 2005 10:25 PM | Link to comment
Hey dude, my sincere condolences.
The next few days will be hectic and stressful since this is probably your first time to deal with such situation. Being educated abroad you may find some of the traditional activities a little difficult to accept, be patient, take a long walk.... think about something to blog,your dad will be glad in another world to know you turn a sad departure into a celebration to enter eternity.
I am sure the humorous nature in you will soon let the sad feelings go and keep the happy moments of being with your dad in your memory.
Looking forward to your humorous post again.
Posted by: e at 04 May 2005 10:27 PM | Link to comment
No words can really describe how it feels to lose a member of your family, especially if its one of your parents.
You have my condolences.
Posted by: luzzio at 04 May 2005 10:36 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolencesto you, Kenny. Take care.
Posted by: cynical-idealist at 04 May 2005 10:38 PM | Link to comment
My condolences
Posted by: pohbc at 04 May 2005 10:39 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolonces to u and ur family.
hope u'll be strong and take good care.
Posted by: nenng at 04 May 2005 10:42 PM | Link to comment
My dad passed away two years ago. At least you got to see him all the way to adulthood.
There's not much I can do other than offer my condolences to your whole family.
Take care Kenny. Your father sure seems like a respectable man. :) May he rest in peace.
Posted by: Sfee at 04 May 2005 10:44 PM | Link to comment
Hi Kenny, just hang in there and know that your father is in a better place. We're all behind you..
Posted by: David at 04 May 2005 10:54 PM | Link to comment
I'm so sorry Kenny. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
God Bless,
Geline
Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 04 May 2005 10:59 PM | Link to comment
I'm sorry Kenny...
Posted by: Reta at 04 May 2005 11:00 PM | Link to comment
Whoa man.... I'm real sorry about your father. My dad worked in a rubber plantation once, too..... you did the best thing you could have done by being beside him.
Posted by: randomshinichi at 04 May 2005 11:01 PM | Link to comment
Kenny,
My deepest condolences to the loss of your father. Stay strong and be proud of your dad.
Jamie
Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 04 May 2005 11:01 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences. Namo Amitabha.
Posted by: cypher at 04 May 2005 11:04 PM | Link to comment
kenny dear, be strong now.
take comfort in the fact that he is no longer suffering, and that he had lived life to the fullest.
my deepest condolences to u and ur family.
Posted by: fara at 04 May 2005 11:06 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolence to you and your family, kenny.
Posted by: frank_omatic at 04 May 2005 11:08 PM | Link to comment
i'm sorry to hear that man... my deepest condolences...
may your father rest in peace...
Posted by: Cedric at 04 May 2005 11:11 PM | Link to comment
i may not know u but have been following ur blog. im so sorry to hear bout ur lost. at least he knew that u were there for him and left knowing everything is at rest. god bless
Posted by: JolingX at 04 May 2005 11:17 PM | Link to comment
im so sorry... :'(
Posted by: autumnmusic at 04 May 2005 11:45 PM | Link to comment
well, i guess this will seem routine, but still, my deepest condolence, as are all your blogs readers here.
Posted by: livingmonolith at 04 May 2005 11:47 PM | Link to comment
Pls Jie An Shun Bian....
Posted by: moon at 04 May 2005 11:52 PM | Link to comment
I'm very sorry to hear that. May he rest in peace knowing that he indeed has a very talented son.
Take good care.
Posted by: MunKit at 04 May 2005 11:55 PM | Link to comment
deepest condolences
Posted by: cchiuyi at 04 May 2005 11:58 PM | Link to comment
I'm so sorry for your loss. :(
Posted by: FF at 05 May 2005 12:01 AM | Link to comment
Dear Kenny,
My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: umami at 05 May 2005 12:05 AM | Link to comment
my deepest condolences to you and your family. may your father rest in peace. take care and be strong.
Posted by: kinyu at 05 May 2005 12:06 AM | Link to comment
I feel for you Kenny. I do know how you feel now at this moment as it happened to me when I was only 17.
Take care and be strong!
Posted by: Edward at 05 May 2005 12:13 AM | Link to comment
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family , Kenny, i'm so sorry about your loss. Take care .
Posted by: cheryl at 05 May 2005 12:42 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences for your loss.
Stay strong Kenny! Know that you've got your loyal readers behind you all the way!
Posted by: jeremy at 05 May 2005 12:44 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Grieve as much as you need to and then try to move on with the beautiful memories you have of your dad. =) Take care.
Posted by: gracie at 05 May 2005 12:45 AM | Link to comment
condolences to u and ur family.
Posted by: milvoon at 05 May 2005 12:46 AM | Link to comment
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Kenny.
Posted by: Julia at 05 May 2005 12:52 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences Kenny...
Posted by: Lecter at 05 May 2005 12:56 AM | Link to comment
So sorry to hear about it. My deepest condolences to you. God bless.
Posted by: Louisa at 05 May 2005 1:14 AM | Link to comment
be strong
Posted by: lynnette at 05 May 2005 1:29 AM | Link to comment
my deepest condolences to you and your family... hang in there alright, be tough, make ur dad proud of u and im sure he will be...take care~
Posted by: xin at 05 May 2005 1:32 AM | Link to comment
I've read your journeys for quite some time. I, too, am heartbroken for your loss. Deepest condolence.
Posted by: Willwolf at 05 May 2005 1:32 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences Kenny, look at the other side of the coin. I was relieved when my loved one left after a series of struggle.
Posted by: Blacksnow at 05 May 2005 1:44 AM | Link to comment
Sorry to hear about it man, but we must accept the fact that everyone has to go on this journey. Be strong..
Posted by: Hallaj at 05 May 2005 1:45 AM | Link to comment
Very sorry to hear about your loss. I send my heartfelt condolences and sympathy.
Posted by: becca at 05 May 2005 1:47 AM | Link to comment
Be strong.
Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 05 May 2005 1:51 AM | Link to comment
If God brought u to it, He ll bring u through it... Hey, i dun think u need any1 to tell u to be strong.. Death is just another phase one has to go through...
Posted by: meng at 05 May 2005 2:09 AM | Link to comment
I am so sorry for your loss, I'm in tears now as I had just visited our former President's Wee Khim Wee tribute just now, and now to read about your dad's passing.
Be strong, wish I could pay my respect to your dad too.
Posted by: aGentX at 05 May 2005 2:18 AM | Link to comment
The past 12 hours has been a long and difficult one. I'm overwhelmed with emotions, mostly sadness and anger. I'm still trying to swallow in the fact that I lost my father, that he will no longer be with me to continue on with my journey of life. This reality is hard to accept. I'm still struggling.
I've read every single comment here, and I thank each and everyone of you for leaving kind comments and words of encouragement. Its especially heartwarming to hear from strangers and friends alike, from places as close to Kuching and as far as US, UK, Australia. I'm touched that some of you even dedicated entries on your blog for me. Somehow it makes going through the past 12 hours a little bit easier.
*** To my Kuching readers - I understand that my privacy may be compromised following my father's passing. I ask that you respect my privacy. Please do not disclose any unnecessary information about my family or my job on this site. And please do not disclose the existence of this blog to anyone else in Kuching. As odd as it sounds, I rather as little people in Kuching know about my blog as possible, only because I know how hurtful gossips may be. I enjoy writing, I'm sure many enjoy reading. Please do not be a bad sport and spoil it for us.
Once again I thank you for giving me strength to get through this very difficult time.
Posted by: Kenny Sia at 05 May 2005 2:18 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences to your loss, Kenny - my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family now. Be strong - you've done all a filial son could do.
Posted by: Jinny at 05 May 2005 2:31 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolonces to you.
Stay strong, Kenny. Stay strong.
I am with you.
Posted by: Liu Xing at 05 May 2005 2:34 AM | Link to comment
I'm really sorry, Kenny.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: Brian at 05 May 2005 2:49 AM | Link to comment
So sorry to hear of you lost Kenny.My deepest condolences to you and your family,hang in there mate,you can do it. We are all here to be with you and will always remember you and your family in this saddest time in prayers and taughts.. Stay strong,think of the good times and not the sad ones. Remember your dad is at a place better then this earth..
Posted by: Angeline at 05 May 2005 4:25 AM | Link to comment
Oh dear...oh dear....
Kenny, I'm so sorry to hear about this...My condolences to you and family.
Posted by: Lainie at 05 May 2005 4:45 AM | Link to comment
Well, his suffering is over. May he go to a better world.
Posted by: suspiciousbastard at 05 May 2005 5:28 AM | Link to comment
My condolences, Kenny...
Posted by: Earthtone at 05 May 2005 5:54 AM | Link to comment
i just saw this. my condolences go out to you and your family. *hugs*
Posted by: minishorts at 05 May 2005 8:08 AM | Link to comment
I'm sorry to hear about your dad.. May his soul rest in everlasting peace and be cherished in your memories forever.. *hugz*
Posted by: sunshine at 05 May 2005 8:26 AM | Link to comment
u r my idol kenny.....kennysia.com fovever
Posted by: fook at 05 May 2005 8:29 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences, kenny
Posted by: yy at 05 May 2005 9:07 AM | Link to comment
Kenny, my condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 05 May 2005 9:40 AM | Link to comment
Chin up, stranger.
Posted by: deadpo8t at 05 May 2005 10:09 AM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences for your loss, Kenny. My father left us when I was still a teenager, so I can understand how you feel. Grief but be strong for your family.
Posted by: ahmad at 05 May 2005 10:28 AM | Link to comment
hey my deepest condolences to you and your family. stay strong.
Posted by: chrissiee at 05 May 2005 11:18 AM | Link to comment
Dear Kenny,
Hope you'll be back to your usual self soon. Words can't really express the feeling of grief. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Posted by: kelawar at 05 May 2005 12:09 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolence to you and your family. hugs.
Posted by: Madder at 05 May 2005 12:21 PM | Link to comment
Hi Kenny: My Condolences; May God's angels look over you&lovedones AlWays.
Posted by: desiderata at 05 May 2005 12:26 PM | Link to comment
Kenny - my condolences. I also lost my father recently.
Be strong. I'm sure that's what your father wants you. For yourself and your family.
Posted by: Chet at 05 May 2005 1:27 PM | Link to comment
Be comforted to know that you have many, many friends who are with you at this hour of sorrows.
Posted by: Yan at 05 May 2005 1:41 PM | Link to comment
Please accept my condolences. May your father rest in peace.
Posted by: Ice_Spice at 05 May 2005 2:34 PM | Link to comment
my condolences to u and ur family.
Posted by: cass at 05 May 2005 2:46 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I am keeping you all in my prayers.
Posted by: sexymama at 05 May 2005 3:10 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolence to you.
It's part of life. Be Strong.
He will always be alive in your heart.
Posted by: Yellow Ant at 05 May 2005 3:13 PM | Link to comment
Sorry. My deepest condolence.
Posted by: mango at 05 May 2005 5:57 PM | Link to comment
my condolences to you and your family
please stay strong
Posted by: fip at 05 May 2005 7:31 PM | Link to comment
Sorry to hear about your. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Bear with the grief and be strong!
Posted by: ashie at 05 May 2005 8:03 PM | Link to comment
i don't know if this would help but *hugz*...
Posted by: Annie at 05 May 2005 9:59 PM | Link to comment
I'm so, so sorry Kenny...
Posted by: Jeffrey Yen at 05 May 2005 10:07 PM | Link to comment
Sorry for the late comment.
My deepest condolence to your family. Kenny, be strong, we will support you. Take care.
Posted by: Jason at 05 May 2005 10:30 PM | Link to comment
Deepest. profound and warmest condolences.
Be strong and keep your chin up in this most testing time. Life goes on, keep on living as how your late father would want you all to.
Posted by: mamatd at 06 May 2005 12:05 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences.. Kenny.
Posted by: MrsT at 06 May 2005 12:51 PM | Link to comment
i am very sorry to hear about yr great loss..
i'm sure no words can describe it now..
be strong..
my condolences to you and your family...
Posted by: ms mumbles at 06 May 2005 1:05 PM | Link to comment
Dear Kenny,
My condolence to you & your family.
Posted by: Nat at 06 May 2005 2:09 PM | Link to comment
Really sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest condolences.
Posted by: Adam at 06 May 2005 4:19 PM | Link to comment
Kenny,
I'm sorry to hear that. Be strong!
Posted by: blewtooth at 06 May 2005 7:24 PM | Link to comment
Condolences to you and your family. God bless..
Posted by: ah ling at 06 May 2005 8:02 PM | Link to comment
my heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: tedsta at 06 May 2005 8:56 PM | Link to comment
My condolences Kenny. This is the first time i read ur blog and i never imagine my first comment to u would be this. You must be having a hard time now, hand in there!
Posted by: Aileen at 08 May 2005 7:04 PM | Link to comment
My Deepest Condolences, May you father rest in peace.
Posted by: twinsmom at 10 May 2005 8:34 PM | Link to comment
My deepest condolences.
Posted by: Mr. "M" at 19 June 2005 6:31 PM | Link to comment
Kenny,
Time will heal all pain, hang in there. Deepest condolences....
Posted by: butterspot at 26 July 2005 1:47 AM | Link to comment
take care kenny !
My dad went to a better place 2 years ago..
so if you need a should to cry on !
my should is too hard for you to lie on...
It will only coz a neckache for u
Posted by: benjamin and yus at 04 July 2006 2:31 PM | Link to comment
I can't imagine how heart broken you really were... i have been reading your blog since 4 days ago... all your jokes and humorous stuff did did help me through with my sad story with the one i loved.
Thanks a lot...
i could feel how sad you are even though i haven't met in real life.. from the way you express yourself in words... i can sense that you are indeed a down-to-earth and probably the most humble i ever met
deepeset condolences to your father.
Posted by: martin at 10 July 2006 12:52 AM | Link to comment
i feel sorry for you man ..stay strong
Posted by: arif at 23 August 2006 1:51 PM | Link to comment
my deepest condolences... i'm sure he was a good father. :)
Posted by: Krystle at 24 August 2007 9:10 PM | Link to comment
itz had been 2 years now,just hope that u had gone through it...
Posted by: ann at 23 September 2007 5:07 PM | Link to comment
I am so so so regret for not having spending time with my late father in October 2005. He died from cancel too....
Posted by: Eddie Law at 26 November 2007 9:33 PM | Link to comment
My mom is diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer early this april. and i'm so afraid to lose her but i'm goin overseas for studies nxt year..
really duno wat to do... wat is it like to leave everything to be with him?
Posted by: helena at 27 November 2007 1:45 AM | Link to comment


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