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05 January 2005
Nicole has landed
Nicole arrived in Kuching yesterday. I picked her up from the airport wearing the same dark blue shirt I wore when I first met her.
It is quite amazing to think that we have already been through 4 years together. Like all relationships ours started out steady and strong. We were young and we were carefree. We had the feeling that all we need is each other, and nothing in the world could tear us apart.
And then reality sets in. The dreaded word 'responsibility'. Domestic responsibilities, parental responsibilities, financial responsibilities among other things. You start to think if it is her that you want to live with for the rest of your life. You start to think if she is the one, despite your parents reminding you how young you are and how many other opportunities you can have.
Signs of crack in our relationship began to show ever since Nicole went to Gingin. She returned to me a different person, she built a wall around herself and became someone that is no longer as likable. In critics' eyes (ie. my family), her stocks fell rapidly. There was once a time when my parents supported her through and through. My parents liked her and she had no problems mingling with my family. Those time has passed. And now I'm beginning to find it difficult to stand up for her.
Nicole will be here for 5 days. She has said that she wanted to come here to visit my father. I just hope that she used her time here to mend the fallen bridges. I still love her, but we need to make things work as I will not betray my family's wishes just to be with her.
:: Posted by Kenny at 10:43 AM | Link | Facebook It
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13 Comments:
love goes a few stages..
First, a couple will stick around all the time
second,a couple will try to be private, keeping a distance away.
third, both will find a way to cope with that distance, making the distance just comfortable for both.
forth, creating a new way to communicate for long-term relationship or marriage.
Posted by: Kenny Lee at 19 April 2005 8:50 AM | Link to comment
communication is key, wish u guys the best
Posted by: ba11z at 13 May 2005 4:56 PM | Link to comment
Any picture? just wondering what she looks like (in a good way) if u can show us.
Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 05 January 2006 2:26 PM | Link to comment
kar bui kun
Posted by: Nicholas Yeoh at 06 June 2006 1:56 PM | Link to comment
my 4th anniversary is coming soon neh!
Posted by: rachz at 07 June 2006 12:57 AM | Link to comment
love has many obstacles...
be steady lah man
Posted by: benjamin and yus at 27 June 2006 10:57 AM | Link to comment
relationship...there's the recipe that no one can completely understand it. it need to be terasured day by day, every single moment, as the warmth getting less, especially long distance relationship. we say trust, but how far u can trust? commitment, but what if then the only person who is fully committed is you? people change, and its fact. all that count, be calm, talk, let your heart out.
Posted by: midorisan at 02 August 2006 8:12 PM | Link to comment
Kenny jiwang leh!!
Posted by: Izwan at 27 May 2007 3:54 AM | Link to comment
Reading back your previous post, now I know that Nicole is your gf. Hopefully I am not wrong..
Anyway, wish you guys luck!
Posted by: curryegg at 06 November 2007 12:10 AM | Link to comment
yea, it makes sense to me now why you and nicole seems to stick together in most occasions that she appear in most of your photos
Posted by: I'm A Chicken With No Name. BWAK BWAK BWAK! at 06 November 2007 4:11 PM | Link to comment
yeaaa.. my guess was right, she's ur gf!
this comment is soooo not important.. :D
Posted by: Honeybee at 27 June 2008 6:23 PM | Link to comment
honeybee, who nicole? of cos she was. she was his gf now she is his exgf. lol
Posted by: (='.'=) at 27 June 2008 7:38 PM | Link to comment
is tis nicolekiss you referring to here??
Posted by: yoges at 03 July 2008 2:14 PM | Link to comment
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